My wife has told me that she had a lot of bisexual feelings when she was younger and even experimented with other girls. She still occasionally comments on how a female friend, actress, or colleague is sexy. However, she has said that she is not willing to bring another person into our relationship, although has never explained or qualified the statement.
But I have these crazy strong fantasies, like the two of us picking up a girl at a bar and tag-teaming her or inviting a single female house guest to sleep in our bed with us. Ocassionally, she asks me what my fantasies are, and I tell her nothing -- that I'm happy with our sex life (generally, I am) -- or I make something up because I'm afraid how she would react. She has told me, "Fantasies are called that because they're not real." But even if I told her that I would never act on my lust for another woman, is it a mistake to admit that I fantasize about it? She might take it as a reason to distrust me.
2007-06-23
03:35:35
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