Our son had a very rare disease and we were told that he would not see his first birthday... he was 7 and the love of our lives along with our (now)4 year old son. This was about 8 months ago and we are handling things completely different. I go to church, work many hours and spend time playing soccer, tennis, etc. with our other son. My husband comes home from work, watches TV and drinks beer. I am not saying that I am perfect, I have slacked off terribly with housework- wich annoys my husband because I use to be so OCD, but I don't see that as one of the most important things in my life anymore... (our house is always clean, just not PERFECT) I have tried to get him to go to therapy, but he will not... he is just very unhappy and angry all the time with me. I understand that he is suffering, as am I, but I don't know how to "reconnect"... any suggestions? (serious only PLEASE)
2007-04-03
12:30:17
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