My mother-in-law hated me from the day she met me. Our first meeting ended with her pulling my then girlfriend aside and asking her 'what is that?'. She spent the entire day looking at me as if I were something unpleasant that she'd stepped in which was noticed by everyone which continued everytime we saw her. I have never been anything but polite and friendly to her despite her obvious dislike for me and she has frequently called me names and made spiteful remarks to my now wife in my absence.
Whenever my girlfriend and I had problems, often because of her behaviour and my girlfriends reluctance to say anything to her, she ran to her mother and allowed her mother to call me everything from a 'control freak' to 'that prick'. We are now married and I told my wife that I will not deal with her after everything she has said. Am I right to refuse to deal with her and is it fair of me to tell my wife that she must defend me or I will defend myself?
2006-12-12
20:29:34
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