Everytime my husband and I get in a fight it is the same thing. He gets mad because I check him on the computer and find out he has been chatting with girls. HE gets mad that I check him and says he doesn't want to be married to the F.B.I. he wants a wife. He says we don't have a normal life. Iask him what he wants in the normal life and he says just normal, wife husband, house, happy. Not checking, not always fighting. How do I change?
My parents divorced when I was 6 because my dad cheated on my mom. He used to take my younger sister and I on dates with him and his girlfriends while he was married to my mom. HE though we were too young to tell on him, but when I was 3 I did and my mom stayed with him for 3 more years, and he still cheated the whole time. Maybe that is why I don't trust my husband, even though I know it's not him. It's because I don't want to be stupid like my mom. It's so easy for men to cheat and that's why I check on him and see what he is doing. Any Advice?
2006-11-14
05:45:10
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