My wife shows no interest in me anymore. She works late more, goes out of town with men co-workers on business trips, hides the fact from me, and says i don't trust her is why she didn't tell me she was with a man. Should I trust her? She dresses off the scale nice for work, but is totally the opposite with me. She don't seem to care where I go, or when I come back, and won't go anywhere with me socially. Outside of this she is good as gold to me. She has admitted to cheating on me but says that was when we were split up and thats the only time. The problem I can't ever get around is i have saw her with my own eyes all over another man and she will never admit it. This tears at my heart but I stay with her anyway. Should I stay? Should I leave? Financially I can't afford to leave. I feel trapped and want to believe in her, but I don't know what to do. She claims she will go to counseling with me, but never makes an effort to do it, I just hurt all over, and don't know what to do?
2006-09-02
00:21:54
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Marriage & Divorce