My partner had a child 8 yrs ago with another partner who does not allow him access, it has hurt him alot. I have just found out i am pregnant and he cant accept this until he sees the 12 wk scan, i am currently 6wks, the problem is i feel isolated, and would like to share all the feelings i am having with him, including the scarey ones like what if something goes wrong. He finds it very hard talking about his feelings. I would like to know how i can include him and make him feel more secure so he can then support me. I have told him time and time again that i would not take his child away (this was before i became pregnant) I feel that if this was the way he behaved with his previous partner i can see where she was coming from, because you feel alone and go through this on your own you can cope on your own and don't need him, i don't know how to tell him this without him freaking out. Help i am so hormonal and confused i can't think straight can anyone out there give me some advice.
2006-07-16
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