Singles & Dating - 27 February 2007

do you break up with your boyfriend if you think / know he will break up with you soon so you can get it over with?... or do you wait and see how eveything turns out and just suck it up if he breaks up with you?

if you didn't understand that, let me re-phrase it all up for you:
-if you know there will be pain in the future of your relationship, do you stop it and ruin possible chances of fixing things or endure the pain?

2007-02-27 12:46:15 · 11 answers · asked by answer! this 3

hi all i had sex with my ex boyfriend on our first date and by the way i was the one who made the first moved i was older than him for 5 years after we had sex in the motel (he was the one who asked for sex and paid for the motel) i asked him if he likes me then he said yes after 3 weeks i called him then went out again our relationship lasted for 2 years but no commitment at all we seldom see each other we had sex less than 10 times we dont talk about our relationship you know what i mean my question is do you think this guy only wants me in bed and one more thing is i always give him gifts and i did not receive anything except for the roses he gave to me after i gave him an expensive gift hes the one who broke up with me he ended his relationship with me he said we need to stop this what do you think guys can i call him my ex boyfriend or not because we do not have any commitment he can do whatever he wants and i can do too please help me i just want to know if he just wants SEX only

2007-02-27 12:44:55 · 3 answers · asked by marilou m 1

today my boyfriend broke up with me because these girls were telling him a bunch of things that weren't true... everything was going great...yesterday we even had out first kiss but today after talking to one of the girls trying to break us up, he came up to me and broke up with me, i was kinda of sad but not terribly sad. i just went on with my day as usually, but he looked REALLY DISTURBED like he never wanted to break up with me, it was weird. What should i do...i still like him but there is this other guy at my church i lyk to ....wut should i do?


P.S. i am in the 7th grade

2007-02-27 12:44:35 · 9 answers · asked by crazily confused 2

OK...so it goes like this i have this big crush on this guy...and he's popular i dunno if he likes me or hates me cuz when i walk by ..he loooks away and after i walk away he intends to loook...um and his friends always look at me wierdly when i walk by, and sometimes when they r with him and they see me..they poke him and then point at me and he stares at me...but most of the time he looks away....so wat u think?
half the girls in our school are like in love with him or somethin..and sometim tht makes me feel bad...cuz i think i'm not good enought for him

2007-02-27 12:43:18 · 14 answers · asked by lana p 1

I have a friend, but she's not close friend. But i often heard about her from my male friends. She often calls most of male friends she knew from web or anywhere. Even some friends (that i know they are quite good looking) have been called by her everyday more than three times a week, just for chitchat. She once seems have falled in love with one of those but so depressed when she knew that the guy has gf already (which then she claimed that the guy has betrayed her, and she's really really sad). At the time she looked so depressed, I have tried to approach her to cheer her up but she refused. Toward women, she seems rude. I know she's lonely and really seeks for a boyfriend.

2007-02-27 12:41:10 · 4 answers · asked by Sparkling pearl 4

Ok my girlfriend and I ahve been going out for 3 weeks
but we've only gotten to see each other 4 times
I want to hold hands ,but am I rushing things?,since were only 14 and been going out for 3 weeks
if i grab her hand walking into a movie is she gonna think im rushing things?

2007-02-27 12:40:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

almost every guy i've ever been with has always been "publically shy about saying he loves me"...like not saying they love me in front of other people DX and stuff...i wonder if it's because i'm ugly or what...http://www.deviantart.com/deviation/47967953/?qo=43&q=by%3Akiki-kiti&qh=sort%3Atime+-in%3Ascraps pic of me xp

2007-02-27 12:40:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my crush, not even my boyfriend ..talks to girls alot in class
its hard for me to just sit & watch him talk to all these girls
that are way prettier than me.. oh & i sit right behind him!
agh i get real jealous but i`m really good @ controlling my jealousy, haha. so i just flirt with some other boy next to me. [=

my question; how can i stop being so freakin' jealous?
or maybe even make HIM jealous =]?

2007-02-27 12:40:12 · 16 answers · asked by Taylor. 5

i like this girl. she doesnt know i do. so we talk a little here and there. the other day we exchanged screennames and she imed me right away and we talk alot now. but at school im always so nervous around her. i dont know what to do....

2007-02-27 12:39:10 · 7 answers · asked by brkw51 2

I really am confused by the term "don't chase love, let love find you"..well it hasn't so far...and which places is love found?

2007-02-27 12:38:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is telling me he loves me and all that crap and we have only been dating for a coul of days.I feel it needs to be addressed , but I don't want to hurt his feelings.I really like another guy too.He likes me.His irlfriend likes another guy.Thjis is confusing.My bf still says we will never end. What do I do ????????????????
I need advice.Badly here.Work with me here !!!!!

2007-02-27 12:37:25 · 15 answers · asked by kristench22 2

If you had one night to impress me, what would we do?

2007-02-27 12:37:02 · 11 answers · asked by Sexual Being Too 1

me and my friend called this boy we like and everyone knows that he likes us back(or does he?) at my sleepover, and we talked for 2 hours at night and 1 hour and 30 minutes in the morning. Does that mean anything? And have u ever done it? 8P

2007-02-27 12:36:36 · 6 answers · asked by blah blah blah 2

you see i have a very sensitive bf. i mean im not mean to him or anything i sometimes tease and he teases me 2 but when it comes to romantic stuff i just cant seem to be able to come up with stuff fast and very good like he does and he gets mad at me about that.and then i get annoyed and then we stop talking to eachother for a bit then he says he has to go and do something and i know he doesnt cause i know he is mad at me and i dont no how i can deal with something like this!!! plz some1 help

2007-02-27 12:36:22 · 12 answers · asked by Tati 3

of friend of mine is treating me to go this a metal type gothic concert and i will be our first time really meeting i want to impress him but of course be myself..any tips on clothes/makeup that day...oh my style i would say is rocker-glam

2007-02-27 12:36:08 · 4 answers · asked by ^MomentaryInsanity^ 3

i got one in class when this girl was talking to her friend about sex and i didnt no how to hide it

2007-02-27 12:35:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's a girl I like at work that may have liked me before, and may still but i'm not sure because she is a seeing a guy. Anyway we usually get along very well and laugh and she is around me alot, and she's laughs at alot of things I do or say. Today however I guess I didn't pay much attention to her, so towards the end of the day she made a minor negative comment about me to someone else at work, then she didn't even look in my direction for the rest of the day. As a result I paid her absolutely no attention back. She just became very quiet and kept to herself the rest of the day. She seemed a little down. I didn't attack her in anyway. What could this mean? Also, when I don't pay much attention to her she never agrees with me, doesn't laugh at anything I do, and is distant. But if I pay attention to her she is much the opposite. What the hell?

2007-02-27 12:34:41 · 1 answers · asked by jigga 1

Cuz I think she likes ME, and I`m not lesbian. And she hasn't told me cuz she knows it would freak me out. I don't know how 2 deal with this, she's even trying to get me jelous, AS IF!, I can't look at her the same way now and she scares me, I don't want her jumping up on me!. What can I do??!.

oxox, thanks!!!.

2007-02-27 12:34:29 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 25, 5 ' 6'', blond i am a little on the heavy side but i am cute!any i have a great personality,so why cant i get a date? is it the weight,tattoos, or that i have 2 kids? some one help please..

2007-02-27 12:34:12 · 6 answers · asked by brandy s 1

I have a huge crush om a guy for the past 5 months. I talk to him some times but rarly and id love 2 go out with him. Maby as a group or my own. Plz answer quickly.

2007-02-27 12:33:57 · 5 answers · asked by blond hottie 2

am 36 and a bachelor and very busy . sometimes a lot of my time is also taken up by coping with blues and why,s and why nots . i have not had sex for 4 years since i have sex only when i am attracted to someone and no one night stands for me and i will not go to a hooker . from purely physical and mental angle is that abnormal . in fact between 18 and 36 i have had two year long relationships with only 2 women and been sexually inactive for the rest of time .

2007-02-27 12:33:27 · 5 answers · asked by atmaram 1

I have moved to Menlo park for studies and right now i have no friend in the new neighbourhood and it makes me feel extreemely loonley. Badly, i can not make any firends in the college, because i have never had a change to hang out with the students, after the class every one dissappears in less than a minute.
There are lots of beautiful girls that i wolud love to go out with but i feel i have lost the ability to socialize my self, or in the oder words iam not self-confident anymore, ever since i left my fmaily. Basically, Iam not crazy of having a girl friend, but what i just want to do is to talk to someone, preferebly girls, since they are better listeners than guys.
Every time i decide to say hi to a girl my heart starts beating like a 2 days old cat then i panic and lose control over my muscles and i can't talk any more,and I HATE IT. I think that I'll probably die if i ask a girl out for a date. What can i do?

2007-02-27 12:33:13 · 2 answers · asked by Mosi 2

theres a boy i like and we went out for 3 days....and on the last day he breaks up with me for no reason and the only thing he tells me is that he dident think it was right. whatever...well today i saw him looking at me and i know he still likes me but there is also somone eles.theres this girl lets say poopy.and she says she like him and he likes her and i think that the only rwason he brook up with me was because she told him to...and when i asked to be his friend still he said no .whats wrong?

2007-02-27 12:33:01 · 1 answers · asked by Roxy! 2

This girl broke up with me 4 mo. ago.Had or has a new boyfriend,has not communicated with me in the 4 mo.Now has started to IM me and trying to talk with me.I have moved on and really don`t want too start again,as she is not good for me.She is self centered and selfish.I however feel its rude to not answer,am I wrong and how should I handle this.Should I just not answer as if I never got the IM.

2007-02-27 12:32:55 · 3 answers · asked by Cherokee P 1

ok well theres this guy and hes in all my classes! and im alwayss put in the front cuzz im kinda short and i talk alot, so hes always behind me. all my friends sayy that he is always staring at me. and we were put in a group togetherr and i was the leader :]] and r teacher told us that if someone in the group needed help that i had to help them. so were doing r work and he asks for my help on the easiest question and he continues to do that. hes alwayss looking for an excuse to talk to me and be around me. hes alwayss doing stuff to get me mad like callingg me names and then i just sorta ignoree him and like give him an evil stare, and then there alwayss ends up a note being on my dest saying "i know your mad at me, what can i do to make it up to you, wait for me after school we'll talk about it". My friend asked him if he liked mee but he just denided it but he wouldnt look us in the eyes and he sorta started to blush....what does this mean???!?

help!!
hollister_lovr1413

2007-02-27 12:31:49 · 6 answers · asked by hollister_lovr1413 1

2007-02-27 12:31:45 · 6 answers · asked by DannyC 2

if you liked a girl and she liked you and you asked her out a million times and she said no and gave you a reason you didnt agree with how would you feel about that after so long of trying to win her over?

2007-02-27 12:29:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I keep having dreams about this hot guy thats on my bus and we are making out on the bus ! is these dreams a sign???

2007-02-27 12:28:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just want to know, please answer.

There is this guy and he always imitates what I say and its really annoying. Actually there are three guys who do this to me. And this one guy was throwing stuff at me the other day. Its REALLY annoying me when they imitate me and stuff. Do they like me or are they just trying to annoy me??

2007-02-27 12:28:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are the concequences?????

2007-02-27 12:27:05 · 22 answers · asked by Shenayder 1