My boyfriend is telling me he loves me and all that crap and we have only been dating for a coul of days.I feel it needs to be addressed , but I don't want to hurt his feelings.I really like another guy too.He likes me.His irlfriend likes another guy.Thjis is confusing.My bf still says we will never end. What do I do ????????????????
I need advice.Badly here.Work with me here !!!!!
2007-02-27 12:37:25 · 15 answers · asked by kristench22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, no. You're boyfriend doesn't just like you. He may be obsessed with you. "we will never end" and constant "I love you"s are serious. You may see your relationship as a fun one. HE sees it as a serious one.
Of course you need to address it! Don't be too harsh! And don't make it seem like you hate him when you explain that you don't LOVE him yet because you've only been dating for a couple of days and love is a strong word.
2007-02-27 12:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm. Okay. Love triangle. Here goes: If a guy is in love with you in the first couple of days, chances are he doesn't love YOU. Just maybe the idea of that solid, everlasting relationship that's shown on t.v. But relationships as such CANNOT be rushed. If you're uncomfortable then just tell him that you are, and if you're conflicted between partners then take time out and be single so as to clear your mind and take your TIME to choose. What's the rush? Honestly, the more you think things out, the more you'll realize how petty this all seems. Give yourself room to grow. GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE THIS HELPS!
2007-02-27 12:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Juli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I hope I will help you out. Your boyfriend right now sounds nervous. He loves you a lot and doesn't want you to leave. It's all up to your heart, but i would tell you to stick with your boyfriend now. That boy who you like shouldn't like you if he still has a girlfriend. You are really cheating yourself if you pick the other guy. Keep the guy who you are going out with for a couple of day. Good luck. God bless you. I hope you make the right decision.
2007-02-27 12:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by louise g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, just tell him that even though you care for him a lot you think that love is to powerful a word for you to really say that that is how you feel. Maybe if you like someone else you shouldn't be going out with your boyfriend anyway. Let your boyfriend know that you like him a lot but you don't know if you truly love him yet and tell him that if he really likes you as much as he says then he will go slower for you.
2007-02-27 12:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by sunshineangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you find that he is going way too fast for your liking, then stop seeing him. Continuing the relationship could only make it worse if you keep getting annoyed or frustrated with his pushiness. If there's a way that you can just let him off gently, try it. Just say that you're not ready for a big committment, like he seems to be(if in fact you're not ready) and that you'd rather maybe just stay friends for now and date other people.
2007-02-27 12:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it sounds confusing. Your current bf is mixing LOVE with LUST! I say dump him and go for the guy you like. Also end the relationship now its sounds like your current bf is PSYCHO! He says you two will never end! THAT IS CREEPY and he sounds like he might be the stalker type. The longer you stay with him the worse its going to get. GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN! If you need any more advice just IM me.
2007-02-27 12:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he is simply moving too fast and if he is really serious about your relationship, he will back off and you some space. Goodness, a woman needs room to breathe! :-) You just have to be straight with him or he will never know he his doing anything wrong. It will all be fine, dont worry too much!
2007-02-27 12:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that would cause confusion, lol.
well if it needs to be addressed then do it, guys sometimes don't realize if they are or aren't. I wouldnt say "i love you" unless you mean it. I did that before and it just made things more weird.
Just say that you guys need to talk, but say nothing s wrong though to reassure him. Say that you don't think he is really thining about it. He just needs to be told, and guys need to be sometimes am i right? hehe. well i hope that everything goes over good!
2007-02-27 12:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole Pruitt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he tells you that he loves you, just say nicely... we barely started going out you dont know what love is or its too soon to say that and i think we should take it slower. you need to say it soon before he really gets the wrong idea and before its too late, someone gets hurt... as for this other guy you say likes you and you feel the same way... how do you know that his gf likes someone else? i think you need to wit till he is single no matter how both of you feel and that is likewise for you
2007-02-27 12:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jdez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys aren't on the same page then you guy shouldn't be together. Especially if you like someone else you should try nt to lead him on if he has those strong feelings for you.
2007-02-27 12:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by *RaP sTaR* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋