Can't we all just get along?

Question

There's a girl I like at work that may have liked me before, and may still but i'm not sure because she is a seeing a guy. Anyway we usually get along very well and laugh and she is around me alot, and she's laughs at alot of things I do or say. Today however I guess I didn't pay much attention to her, so towards the end of the day she made a minor negative comment about me to someone else at work, then she didn't even look in my direction for the rest of the day. As a result I paid her absolutely no attention back. She just became very quiet and kept to herself the rest of the day. She seemed a little down. I didn't attack her in anyway. What could this mean? Also, when I don't pay much attention to her she never agrees with me, doesn't laugh at anything I do, and is distant. But if I pay attention to her she is much the opposite. What the hell?

Answer 1

Well buddy your apparently doing something he isn't. Not meaning physically ether but emotions have a greater power of intensifing the physical which is apparently the territory you are in. I had the same situation at a vo-tech I went to and a couple years after that I kept contact and eventully we became great lovers. Its on you buddy what you do just remeber that with different sex relationships (if your strait anyways) friendship have a habit of making people become lovers. Its natural. Unfornatly people have a bad tendency of wanting to make lovers, friends which isn't natural at all. This is mostly due to the fact that you need a good friendship inorder to trust each other enough to have a great love affair which would accully make you lovers and not just two individual that are welling to have sex with each other. You guys are just doing the more natural path but are distrated by the samething everyone else is... society... o and work which isn't the best place to develop relationships that deep because it could bit you in the end.