i like this girl. she doesnt know i do. so we talk a little here and there. the other day we exchanged screennames and she imed me right away and we talk alot now. but at school im always so nervous around her. i dont know what to do....
2007-02-27 12:39:10 · 7 answers · asked by brkw51 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should talk to her! she obviously likes something about you, otherwise she wouldn't talk to you online. she's probably nervous too. she'll really like the fact that you're trying to be her friend, and not just some guy she talks to. hey, it can even develop from there! that's how i got my boyfriend. just be yourself around her and you can't go wrong.
2007-02-27 12:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by hockeychic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anxiety is often a normal response given what you described. One of the simplest methods of regulating anxiety is by regulating your breathing and giving yourself the opportunity to gain your composure. Remember, there is seldom justification for feeling you have to rush into a conversation as soon as you are near her. Simply, ask her how she is doing, and, show that you are indeed interested. Maintain eye contact, and smile. Warmth will win over witt every time. Giving her the time to respond to your sincere inquirery about her status. This will give you time to calm down, and prepare yourself for the remainder of your conversation. Not everyone is comforatble initiating a conversation, but, a sincere "How are You?" will get you on your way.
Good Luck and God Bless!
2007-02-27 20:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by Pastor Jeff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yup yup yup
most important- does she have a boyfriend?if she does and she acts like she really likes him then she pobably wont break up with him 4 you, if she doesnt have one well thats just a totaly different question....
well do you get nervous on the computer when your talking to her? if you dont then just talk more on the comp then that will cause more interaction at school.... she might fall for you!!!
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GO FOR HER!!! :)
2007-02-27 20:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just approach her and tell her you had a great time with her online!! Tell her your nervous in front of her, most girls think it`s a compliment to have a guy all crazy and nervous around her!!
2007-02-27 20:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by lost2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either tell her how you feel or show her in your actions like talk to her a lot be nice to her flirt a little she'll get the picture
2007-02-27 20:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it slow with her and for a while keep IMing her and talking and wait unyill she invites you somewhere to do something
2007-02-27 20:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by baconbobdude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait
2007-02-27 20:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋