Ok my girlfriend and I ahve been going out for 3 weeks
but we've only gotten to see each other 4 times
I want to hold hands ,but am I rushing things?,since were only 14 and been going out for 3 weeks
if i grab her hand walking into a movie is she gonna think im rushing things?
2007-02-27 12:40:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also to the guy that said im too slow
we do hug before we leave and stuff
2007-02-27 12:48:46 · update #1
no, that's a perfectly normal reaction to want to reach out and touch the one you like. At your age, wanting to hold hands is perfectly permissible. Don't be awkward about it, asking her would only make the two of you self-conscious. Just take your time, don't just grab her hand right away. Just ease into it, swing your arm so you touch her fingers first and if she doesn't pull back her hand, you may gradually move your whole hand to fit her palm. There, it's not so hard isn't it? Mind you, just the hand! Good luck!
2007-02-27 12:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Seryus! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one way to find out is to try it. If she is giving you signals that she likes you, then she is probably waiting for you to make the first move. The movies can be a cold environment. Grab her hand (like you are checking) and ask, "Are you cold? Man, it's cold in here!" Or if she is wearing pretty rings or a bracelet, ask to see it up close. Hold her hand as you take a closer look. If she doesn't freak that you touched her, then softly hold her hand for real.
2007-02-27 12:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 02:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUSHING YA RIGHT
you are sooo not rushing into things 3 weeks is totally ok to hold hands i bet shes even waiting for you to make a move i know i would...................okay i know what ur thinking "why doesnt SHE make the 1st move" .....because girls dont like to HAVE to make the 1st move
2007-02-27 12:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 4.00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, holding her hand isnt rushing things. She's probably waiting for you to make a move (at least that) by now
2007-02-27 12:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no , girls actually like that stuff, ur not rushing things u just miss her and when ur with her u wanna make use of the moments that u do things like hold her hand and stuff, so dont worry about it.
2007-02-27 12:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by princess cc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all! if you wanted to KISS her, after 3 weeks, yeah thats rushing
kissing should normally start after the first month and a half or so, or whenever you two are ready
your 14, im sure soon you might feel that your "oh my god so inlove, i would die without her" (or happens to most teenagers) but your not, and you wont, so dont freak :)
2007-02-27 12:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it IS TOO SOON! You 2 have only seen each other 4 times. Take your time in the relationship. Its not good to rush relationships.
2007-02-27 12:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This happened to me too. I'm nly 13. Slowly, move your hand to hers while you are sitting down in the movies. Don't hold her hand while walking into the movies. Just hold her hand, while your sitting down then look in her eyes and tell her that you love her.
2007-02-27 12:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by louise g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i dont think she will think you are rushing things, if you kiss her, then yea, you are pushing the limits of the beautiful age of 14
keep it to hand holding, she will appreciate it more than you might think
2007-02-27 12:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by Modern-day Ask Abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋