do you break up with your boyfriend if you think / know he will break up with you soon so you can get it over with?... or do you wait and see how eveything turns out and just suck it up if he breaks up with you?
if you didn't understand that, let me re-phrase it all up for you:
-if you know there will be pain in the future of your relationship, do you stop it and ruin possible chances of fixing things or endure the pain?
2007-02-27 12:46:15 · 11 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say you have a sit down with him. ask him if hes thinking about breaking up with you. then you ask him why? and if you can resolve it or not. communication is the best thing to do in a relatioship. talk to him
2007-02-27 12:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by clgirl321 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends. If you know there will be like REALLY bad pain in the future then you might wanna go ahead and end the relationship. However, if you really like this guy and there is possible chances to fix things, then you should tell him that you love him more than anything else and then you try to do as much as you can to fix the relationship.
GOOD LUCK HUNN ⥠â¥
2007-02-27 21:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by i miss himm.alott? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him about it and let him know that if he is planning on ending it, he needs to tell you and not leave you hanging. Let him know you want to fix the relationship if at all possible but if he knows its over, then just let it be over and stop holding on to it.
2007-02-27 20:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait for him because he may be acting wierd with no intention of breaking up with you. You can't just run out on relationships. You will and up being dumped at some time in your life. You can't run away from it.
2007-02-27 20:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by tisdale 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just wait a while and if he breaks up with you then hes missing out not that i know you but sound like ur a cool person ok well ne ways ask him if hes going to brak up with you and then try to figure things out
hope that helps good luck
2007-02-27 20:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by lopez_oneyda 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you do whichever you prefer, if you break up with him just because you think he is going to break up with you is really lame.... if you still like him then dont break up with him, maybe you are wrong about the fact that he is going to break up with you, and the pain thing if he is constantly insulting/ physically assaulting you break up with him instantly
2007-02-27 20:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by smaug81243 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've always broken up before they did, just to make myself feel like i did the right choice.
If you really like the guy then keep going, there still might be hope!!
Best wishes!
2007-02-27 20:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole Pruitt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok first of all if u mean people telling u rumors, havent u heared of not listening to rumors and second what if he doesnt break it off, then u'll be stuck in deep dooty!! so ur choice would u rather just have him break it off if u think he will or break it off and not sure if he would,( i wouldn't)
2007-02-27 20:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by baby girl#1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep going! pain is just part of life and what doesn't kill us makes us stronger
2007-02-27 20:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
end it bc he might be doing something that could hurt u even more
2007-02-27 20:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋