Singles & Dating - 14 February 2007

2007-02-14 02:52:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

you were together for 5 years
when I met my girlfriend now ex she was 19 and I was 24
first 3 years were great, we clicked like no other, I would make her laugh just by looking at her or touching her.... I could make her laugh so hard that she couldn't stop
I always loved her with all my heart, give her all the respect, kindness, kisses, and all the good stuff...I'm a hopeless romantic and a gentleman to the girls I like, respect and love
after 3 years I went into business of my own which is doing well but it keeps me away from home 7-10 sometimes 14 days at a time
but when I get back I can take as much time off as I desire 1-2 weeks no problem ..its not uncommon for me to be off 3months or more out of a year if you put it together
she works full time and goes to college 4 times a week so its not like she is lonely when I'm gone
if anyone is lonely its me....the time away i spend mostly by my self and I go visit customers but it only 1 person a day for about 30 min
I was so happy with her I didn't even look at other girls
but during the 4th year she started to be distant,not call or return call, always had different plans when i got back home and I didn't think nothing of it because I trusted her and she promised me she would never cheat on me because by doing that she would disrespect her self
besides she had her group of friends and I had mine....that was never an issue...actually we liked it like that
than one night she breaks up with me but comes back the same evening with big tears so I took her back because thats not what I wanted.....after that she promised if there ever is an issue she would come and talk to me
I'm very understanding and easy to compromise with, she promised she would never lie or push me away like that again
one year later same thing started to happen but worse, she would push me physically away when I was trying to snuggle up with her in bed, not call for a week, not call back at all, change plans 3-4 times a day so I finally confronted her and asked if everything is ok because I feel that something is wrong
she says that everything is fine and that she is sorry for pushing me away in bed but she was sleeping.
I asked her few more times during next few weeks and same story all over
than I finally couldn't take it anymore and made her tell me ( over the phone) what is going on
at teat time she asked for two weeks to figure out what she wants......fine I gave here that
two weeks past and I was ready to end this if she couldn't be honest again
so she calls me and her only excuse was that she was 19 when we met and now she is 24 and that I dont like her friends too much....yeah like she just loves my friends...but whatever
just like that its over....she ruined the whole image I had of her and the trust is gone...no wtha tI look back she wsnt that great and wasn't even as pretty as i always though she was.....I guess my pink goggles are of after 5 years
what do you make of this?

2007-02-14 02:51:58 · 35 answers · asked by mr.ask_a_lot 1

2007-02-14 02:50:59 · 12 answers · asked by forgotten_lore187 2

I just can't figure out what are hints or not. I knew she liked me a few months back though. Gave her a rose today and she came up, punched my shoulder and said thanks, but i was frozen.

Its elementary and I guess i gotta grow some balls and take a risk, but id like for it to be as smooth as possible? Please help! I'm afraid of rejection and all that mumbo jumbo so anything useful is appreciated.

2007-02-14 02:50:44 · 15 answers · asked by Dabidu 4

many of us spending hundreds of dollars in valentine days. dont you think that real love is free ? I mean that it isn necessary to spend much money to show yor love.
if you love some one show her or him with yorur passion its not important to buy an expensive present do you agree me?

2007-02-14 02:49:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi.. i asked out my best friends sister to a date on valentines... i used to always c her coz i was always at my friends house, but never really talk.. so we dont really kno each other, any suggesstions on wat to do n where to possibly go on the date??

2007-02-14 02:48:09 · 4 answers · asked by chris 1

I see alot of females I like on myspace. When I send them a message, what should I say, were I can definitely get a response back from them

2007-02-14 02:47:30 · 21 answers · asked by younge y 1

many schools have a Valentine's Day program which involves the student council distributing flowers & chocolates form one student to another(that is,if you did pay for it).but is this,really neceassary?

my school does that too,& today there were a lot of misunderstandings & confusions.my crush apparently thought that I had sent him a "Friendship" rose annoymously,whereas i was never a person to do things in a round-abt manner).

a couple of my guy friends played a joke on my best friend,Anjuli-they sent this guy a rose saying that it's from her.he received the rose,& then it was taken away because she denied sending it.(imagine how he would have felt)
only a couple of girls got roses in my whole grade,compared to the guys.(are traditions being reversed?).some people even send flowers to themselves,so that they can brag abt how many they got.(is it a competition?)& of course,there was also a lot of people who didn't get anything.(i wonder how many broken hearts went home today)

2007-02-14 02:47:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm surrounding by women or "options" who dress scantily, drink and do a wide array of drugs they can get ahold of, flirt excessively and occasionally dabble in sexual relief with the nearest "cute boy"... yet ***** and moan about "all guys want is sex". That's all they're offering and I'm personally bored to tears with these women. You try to get to know them and they put up all kind of emotional shields to protect their "sweet virginity" you know they lost several years ago in the first place, sabotaging any kindness or affection that comes their way... unless you "hawt". This is a living hell for someone looking for strictly, loyal gf material. Instead, I have Lindsay/Paris/Britney clones acting ret@rded yet constantly wondering why they can't find love. Girl's like this are train wrecks and I'm personally sick of catering to their B.S. and getting no respect in return. Should I broaden my horizens? If so, where? Or should I give up, have fun and take advantage of this w/o the guilt

2007-02-14 02:46:22 · 7 answers · asked by blah_blah 2

I love Italians because they have beautiful hair and skin color.I love their culture, food, and passion for romance. Some have cocky little attitudes that crack me up too.

2007-02-14 02:45:59 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4

Just wondering if this is an English tradition or is it something we have tagged on to.
x

2007-02-14 02:45:47 · 9 answers · asked by loadsofgoesatthis 2

Im at work and his sooooooooo cute..he sent me roses..
and some ice-cream..(he knows I love ice-cream)lol

2007-02-14 02:41:35 · 4 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4

I want to know if she is cheating.

2007-02-14 02:41:23 · 12 answers · asked by punkie brewster 2

the best way to forget the love that your once had for someone is by avoiding them and to lay low...? Till the feelings is totally gone??

2007-02-14 02:41:22 · 3 answers · asked by Belle 5

They say when you stop looking you will. However when I'm not looking I always get approached by people that there is just no chemistry or interest on my end. What is going on? I have even lowered my standards some. My life is pretty full, everything is great except for the whole love life thing. I'm fine with being single, its just sometimes I wish I had someone to spend my life with.

2007-02-14 02:40:39 · 14 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

ok here is sumthing to prove it well. he's been asking for my phone number and photo but thats weird considering we only got togeather on saturday and we're only in middle scool. I don't know but this thing is bugging me and i don't know why.I'm guessing maybe because this is my first or maybe sumthing reallly fishy's going round here.but if you can cud you please tell me if he really likes me or if hes upto sumthing???????????

2007-02-14 02:39:05 · 11 answers · asked by gud girl 1

2007-02-14 02:38:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-14 02:38:02 · 2 answers · asked by andys 1

2007-02-14 02:37:33 · 8 answers · asked by solorider07 1

i am absolutely in love with this guy and everyday im with him feels like when we first started going out. i honestly feel like my life is over and i only wanna lay here and cry.. hes "SOO sorry" and he realized that he loves me to death thats why he stopped talking to her like that. what in the hell am i supposed to do.......? im normally the one giving the advice out but right now i seriously need it.... & todays valentines day, what timing.

2007-02-14 02:36:13 · 8 answers · asked by jamie e 1

i dont care if a girl looks good, if she doesn't cook good.

because i'm probably going to eat more than I have sex......

what do you have to say about it?

2007-02-14 02:34:25 · 21 answers · asked by tripppah 3

and told her that he is married... and to leave him alone... WILL SHE??? they are NOT that close, maybe a couple of emails, and she gave him her number, but he hasnt called yet.... Will she leave him alone?

2007-02-14 02:33:53 · 21 answers · asked by greygirl06 2

Theres this guy... like there always is... but anyway i know him for a long time and at some stage in our friendship we got to a point of talking about kissing each other and you know stuff like that... but i don't now what happened because right now he has a problem with everything that i do. I can't send him a message or call him anymore without him frecking out and stuff... All i wana do is find out what happened that hes acting like this and if it was something i said or did to make him act like this?? I really want us to have a relationship with each other but he doesn't even let me near him without him saying something bad about me. I even asked him he has a problem with everything that i do and hes answer was yes. What the hail is wrong with him or is there something wrong with me?? All i want is that dude back that i fall in love with... so should i carry on trying to fix whats left of our friendship because nothing is ever going to happen between us or should i just leave him?

2007-02-14 02:33:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's not like they will tell you! Would you snoop or do you snoop!

2007-02-14 02:31:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that my baby will forever be in my heart!

2007-02-14 02:29:11 · 34 answers · asked by toughguy2 7

Hi, I’m a guy who’s 24 years old and still a virgin. I’m abstaining from sex till marriage, not because I’m religious, but because I believe it’s the right thing to do. Not that I judge anyone who doesn’t abstain from sex till marriage, so don’t take what I said the wrong way. But I often wonder will there be a girl like me, abstaining from sex till marriage? As being a virgin above the age of 20 is rare.

2007-02-14 02:29:09 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1

and put downs too?

2007-02-14 02:28:05 · 17 answers · asked by lloydthebear 3

2007-02-14 02:27:06 · 7 answers · asked by FATMATA K 1

I know that I do!

2007-02-14 02:26:37 · 16 answers · asked by toughguy2 7

2007-02-14 02:25:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous