i am absolutely in love with this guy and everyday im with him feels like when we first started going out. i honestly feel like my life is over and i only wanna lay here and cry.. hes "SOO sorry" and he realized that he loves me to death thats why he stopped talking to her like that. what in the hell am i supposed to do.......? im normally the one giving the advice out but right now i seriously need it.... & todays valentines day, what timing.
2007-02-14 02:36:13 · 8 answers · asked by jamie e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to establish that he has broken your trust and that it is going to be hard for you to believe that he is sorry.
Sorry is easy to say and hard to do.
The hurt has already been done and is going to take time to get over.
If he REALLY loves you I guess you could consider giving him another chance - my own reservations are that you seem to be so infatuated with him that he's going to walk all over you and you're just going to get hurt again.
If the roles were reversed and I was being cheated on, I'd be out of there straight away even if I was hopelessly in love with the other person.
2007-02-14 02:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are upset about your boyfriend talking to another girl at work especially since they work together, it could be nothing unless you have heard something that does not sound quite right to you. The only thing you can do is talk to your boyfriend and find out what is going on, It may turn out to be nothing at all or something that should have not got started, If he is any kind of a guy or the guy he is when you and him started dating he will come out and tell you what is going on. Just don't be quick to judge or make an assumption until you know all the facts.
2007-02-14 10:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Started talking' is that what makes you feel insecure? I guess you're nuts then. See, we both know it is too simple to say - That one should not be possessive but this feeling comes when you love someone. Still, you cannot feel insecure just because he has started tlaking to a colleague or ex-flame. Come on. If he has to go away no one can stop him, talking to some one doesn't wean people away. Stop feeling insecure, if you love him then let him be free, if he was yours no one can take him away and if he wasn't then you'll never be able to stop. When things like this happen just remind yourself if you wld have been talking to someone else, should He feel insecure? If not, then you too have no reasons. All the best and still some hours are left for v-day to get over...enjoy!
2007-02-14 10:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stay with him. He only cheats once every 3 years, thats not that bad. That meas if you are together for 30 years, he'll only cheat on you 10 of those year, so you'll have 20 good years. Thats a long time.
2007-02-14 10:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
take a time out. date other guys if you still fill the way u do about him the get back together.
2007-02-14 10:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by Isis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him alone and find someone better that will honestly love you back and you feel happier believe me i been through it
2007-02-14 10:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by B@$H?U! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It al depends on what way he talked to her and about what.
2007-02-14 10:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by Spokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to get a new job to prove to you he is sorry. i wouldnt be able to forgive him if he still worked with her.
2007-02-14 10:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋