Singles & Dating - 4 November 2006

We have been dating over 2 years, we started dating our senior year of high school and everything was fine.we decided to go to colleges in the same city, about 30 min apart. Over the past year she has been increasingly needy. She needs to hang out every/all weekend, she needs to have at least a 10-15 min conversation twice a day, not to mention a 30 min phone conversation at night before we go to sleep. if i am talking to her online, and stop paying attention to her (because i am doing a paper or something) she gets upset and gives me attitude, when we part ways after hanging out all weekend, she completely shuts off and becomes very negative and depressed. She gets pissed if i only give her a 5 min conversation. I have a busy life to lead in college, plenty of work and such, and if seems like she doesnt understand. Now dont get me wrong, i do loveher,we have alot in common, laugh alot. I take pride in how well i treat her, i give her loads of attention,love and time, shes 2 need

2006-11-04 07:40:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this girl I met and im trying to have a conversation with but would'nt keep the conversation going by saying nothing or saying to little for me to keep it going. Im wondering about why is she behaving like this. PLEASE help my figure out.

2006-11-04 07:39:46 · 7 answers · asked by fine boy 1

i found a girl that i have seen hundreds of times but she can only come like twice a month to church so when i saw her i asked her to come to this bonfire thing and she said sure so then i told her i liked her but sshe changed the subject anyways we hung out and she sat next to me four times in twenty minutes!!! she is three days younger than me literally. we are both 13. oh she has a twin brother and two weeks ago i told him i liked her and he told her that "one of his friends" liked me i am his friend so... she guessed it was me. at the bonfire there was this hayride and she sat with me going and coming. what my problem really is i guess how do i ask her if she likes me oh i can't date till im 18 and my parents know i like her and they sorta tease me about her. did i mention that my sister likes a guy named taylor and i like a girl named taylor... wierd. so just give me the best advice you can so have a nice day thank u al.l she is a strong christian so how do i ask her if she likes.

2006-11-04 07:37:23 · 14 answers · asked by pistoluser 3

do you think love on the net is possible?do you think it is lust or love?

2006-11-04 07:36:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a female and I smile all the time. People are always saying that I smile all the time and am always very bubbly. Is this a bad thing?

Do guys find that a turn-off?

2006-11-04 07:34:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

does having sex in water decrease the risk of getting pregnant?

2006-11-04 07:34:15 · 17 answers · asked by Breanna W 2

2006-11-04 07:33:34 · 17 answers · asked by hot_blonde_2952 2

my girlfriend said that *we need to talk* are we going to break up im really nervous right now and im shaking

2006-11-04 07:33:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i.m talking about all kinds of guys from bad boys to mama's boys, from the most vain to sloppy...
does a girl, on first look have to be slim to be attractive?
by slim i mean healthy slim, not skinny tiny.
can an overweight ( size 16+) girl genuinly make your head spin and they wanna chat her up?
or does it put guys off?

2006-11-04 07:33:05 · 25 answers · asked by emboo 2

Or his figure? Do ladies expect more from short men?

2006-11-04 07:32:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

its jus i get told quite alot that i look like her and i don't know whether to take it as a compliment or not, for those of u who don't know who she is ive given some links so u can see her pics.

http://photos.lacoccinelle.net/82/31/78231.jpg

http://img80.echo.cx/img80/7035/reter1tw.jpg

http://photos.lacoccinelle.net/22/26/132226.jpg

2006-11-04 07:32:43 · 5 answers · asked by DaRkAnGeL 4

...find true love? Are there any men out there who put intelligence, integrity, tenderness and warmth above T&A?

2006-11-04 07:31:51 · 14 answers · asked by Kodoku Josei 4

2006-11-04 07:30:29 · 19 answers · asked by Therese P 1

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

Additional Details

21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

2006-11-04 07:29:56 · 9 answers · asked by osb2904 1

This is more of a random relationship question. It doesn't really apply to me, but some of my female friends ask out guys... I've always been the old-fashioned type who waits for guys. But sometimes, I actually consider asking someone out--which I think is a little weird (for myself). But do guys think it's weird to be asked out? Or is it a good thing?

2006-11-04 07:29:27 · 5 answers · asked by Chocolate_swirls18 2

I usually get the question of so how do you know that you are really in love with your boyfriend. What i tell them, is that I dont have an obsession for him. From my past experience, the guy i dated before my current boyfriend, there was this obsession with him. I basically cut everything out of my life cept him. That was very unhealthy. But what else would I tell a person about my love and how I know it is true. Me myself does know that this is love so its enough that i know. Now im just tired of people questioning me. What should I tell them?How do you describe love to those who are wondering?

2006-11-04 07:27:45 · 18 answers · asked by Ronak M. 1

There are 3 guys that pay alot of attention to me. #1 is always leaning on me&tries to get me alone w/ him. #2 is trying to get in good w/ my brother & is always touching me. Also every time he tries to ask me out I change the subject. My brother calls it a major rejection.Yet the guy keeps trying. #3 is a little shy &I befriend him because of it. Well, he treats me w/ so much respect &I know he will do anything for me. Also did I mention that he pretty much hates any guy who talks to me&has tripped them for it. The bigger problem is that I have a thing for a different friend. He is my good friends brother that I soon became friends w/. He is sweet, intellegent, witty, spiritual, kind, funny &so much more. We use to talk all the time online &at church. But ever since these 3guys came in he has been very distant w/ with me. We now never talk pratically &he avoids me. He will say hi & then walk away. If not more than a friendsthen just friends. If I did't like him,I'd want to be friends.

2006-11-04 07:27:03 · 7 answers · asked by someone ha 2

Calling me. I should have know better, because this is a pattern for him. I would like to have my dad, or brother call him and tell him to leave me alone but I am not sure if I want my family involved. I did call the police for their help but I have to tell him to stop calling first. I did that. I really would love for a cop to call him and tell him to leave me alone. I now cannot stop crying because I am afraid. I am not asking this question under my email acct b/c I am afraid he will find it and who knows. Please help... and I mean serious answers only.

2006-11-04 07:26:48 · 16 answers · asked by OMG I thought I saw A Kitty Kat 2

2006-11-04 07:26:39 · 21 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

I need help my bf said i needed new moves to use on him

2006-11-04 07:26:11 · 9 answers · asked by Melissa<3 2

I have trawled the internet looking for answers to my predicament, yet all the answers always asume the woman to be the victim.
I am in a relationship with a woman who can be the most lovely sweetest person at times yet has mood swings that would embarress the devil himself.
I love her very much and think she loves me, yet she can suddenly blow like a super volcano.
we have been in this relationship for 4 years which has had romantic moments most people can only dream of and a passion not even imaginable in movies, yet it is fataly flawed.
My partner is very irritable and self centred, extremely dominating and controlling she will talk literaly for hours on end yet not allow me to finish a single sentence should I be so inconsiderate as to say something. Heaven help me if thesubject is other than her.
The slightest thing will make her blow a fuse, simple things like not turning the corner quickly enough when driving, after which I will suffer the most vile verbal abuse imaginable.

2006-11-04 07:25:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems like everytime I start a relationship with a woman, She always asks if I have any good pornos, Ive never owned a porno video or magazine in my life, Ive borrowed them in the past but only after school when I was a teenager or my friends stag night a few years back, I dont know what to do or what kind of porno women are interested in, maybe I should ask you guys?
What should I do, Should I by one?

2006-11-04 07:24:03 · 19 answers · asked by crazykev2007 1

There this guy we use to have same homeroom for 9th &11th grade but we didn't talk to each other he was just a classmate. Until one day I was walking to my locker I needed to get some books out for class until he told to wait not to close the locker. We don't share lockers so I just looked at him. At first it looked like he forgot wat he was going to ask me he stutters. I asked "Wat do u want?" He said "Um can i burrow ur history book" I say "I don't have a history class" so he was just standin there and i say "how is it that u know my name?" he said "cus um u popular"

Ever since i seen him by my locker more often and i notice that i have him for a class.

What do u think?
What should I do?
Does this situation mean anything?
Just tell me ur opinion please

2006-11-04 07:23:03 · 14 answers · asked by ♥yessy♥ 2

he said he was very busy and called late in the night at about 10 pm..and i did not answer the phone... WHAT IS UP???

2006-11-04 07:22:56 · 10 answers · asked by sam 3

2006-11-04 07:22:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-04 07:22:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so one of my best friends has liked this guy for like five months and they're finally together! I was so happy for her untill I saw him lip-locking with his ex-girlfriend. I told my friend and she asked him about it but he said I'm crazy. Now she's angry at me. What should I do?

2006-11-04 07:17:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

And she looked great in a bikini. Let's have fun with this and say you 2 were alone and you could do whatever you wanted. this girl is 5'1 and 90lbs. She's a really rich gymnast and dancer from 60010(one of the wealthiest zips in the US) You could have friends with you if you want. Would you do what most girl's think you would do?? Please Answer!!!

2006-11-04 07:15:34 · 5 answers · asked by Sakura 1

please help, everytime i seem to get a new girlfriend she moves to chile! what am i doing wrong?

2006-11-04 07:15:27 · 20 answers · asked by andrew r 1

cuz i asked my friends and they said it wasn't. Ok so i likethis guy. and i'm like way too shy to talk to him. so i'm gonna tell him in his yearbook at the end of the year that i like him. sound stupid?

2006-11-04 07:14:55 · 4 answers · asked by I♥David and Tom 4