When the relationshiop first started we had sex every time I came over. I moved in 2 months after we met and we've been together ever since. I used to initiate sex all the time and after 2 yrs he didn't want to do it any more. After the first 2 yrs I can count on one hand how many times we've had sex each year. I told him I would stop initiating and I did, and it hasn't bothered him one bit after 5 yrs. I've talked to him about it many many times, told him it WAS an issue with me. We are in love with each other, but we have sex about 6 times a year. He sometimes gets annoyed when I look at other and talk about other guys. I know it would be cheating if I hooked up (safely) secretly just so I could feel human again but I am DONE talking about to him it, and I've told him that. Would he have the right to be mad at me if he found out I had safe sex with other guys? Breaking up is not an option after 7 yrs. We do love each other but I've done and said all I can about the sex.
2006-06-21
18:01:46
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