ok now i told this guy i loved him and he said it back but he didnt seem excited about it..............help what does this suppose to mean now.......or what else is suppose to happen...
2006-06-21 17:27:32 · 17 answers · asked by desilou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so we are not dating and he really asked me if it was love love or just love
and then i said i really do love him
2006-06-21 17:34:17 · update #1
Find out what else if anything is bothering him. If he says he is fine then present him with your question compassionately. Don't be harsh or accusing. Make sure you mention you are concerned with the health of the relationship and want to make sure everything is ok. Now if everything is ok then he is either lying or not interested anymore.
Hope this helps
Matt
2006-06-21 17:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by MastaP 2 · 32⤊ 2⤋
I LOVE YOU! (see? easy to say, harder to really mean)..
The eternal "who says it first" situation will always lead to either: 1. an awkward silence
2. an insincere,"me too" or "I love you"
3. an emotional "dam bursting" as you just said what the other person feels but was afraid to say.
Now what? Well, forget what was said. ACTIONS really do speak louder than words! Do his eyes "eat you up" as in he can't take them off of you? Is he really excited to be with you all the time or just when he wants sex? Often many of us tend to filter out reality when WE are infatuated/love someone but in the end if you are honest with yourself you can see and feel another person's love or lack of it..... Watch what he now does not what he says....
Just my .02 cents.
RAS
2006-06-21 17:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by ras_debol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys feel pressured to give the perfect response when a female tells him that she loves him. He wants to please her and tell her exactly what she wants to hear. Sooner or later the man will actually feel that way about her and everything will be alright! If not, everything in the rest of the relationship will be a complete lie...
2006-06-21 17:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are that great at expressing their feelings and if you said it first then he probably just said it because you were expecting it. People don't fall in love at the same time. Give him space and time.
2006-06-21 17:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by laylamami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first think how long you have been dating and if you really meant that if you have been dating a long time and you do really feel that way maybe he wasnt ready or maybe he is shy and embarrased plus just maybe he doesnt exspress love the same way you may
2006-06-21 17:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by jkrocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to read too much into it. Personally I'd say wait and see if he says "it" back to you without you saying it first again. Maybe he's just really nervous. Good luck and God bless.
2006-06-21 17:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by littlebluebear22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably needs time to think about your relationship. Or it's the fact that he just said that to make you feel good and not hurt your feelings.
2006-06-21 17:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by yinyellowx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something was up and he really wasn't excited ask him if he really does love you or not? That should help clear everything up.
2006-06-21 17:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by jazjadaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he just said it just because you said it first. that shows that he does care enough about you to not hurt your feelings, but he might not be in love with you. but that is just my opinion, if you want to find out for sure, you need to ask him yourself or you will never know.
2006-06-21 17:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by babythugga281 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He prob having a hard time to say it, I some girl I liked said that to me I prob wouldn't say anything.
2006-06-21 17:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by Mike B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because love is just a word anyone can say it , action speaks louder than the word love
2006-06-21 17:31:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋