I don't particularly enjoy my job and when I get home I am just tired, completely without 'oomph'. There is also a continuing financial situation where my boyfriend cannot seem to get his act together, I bail him out and it is now straining my bankaccount to breaking point.
I love him, don't want to leave him and do have faith (somewhere) that he will sort himself but I cannot bring myself to sex. As in I don't feel like it and I really don't want to either. The fact that he keeps promising his parents will help out a bit (they have done nothing for our moving in together, my parents have helped out a huge lot) and it always amounts to nothing irritates me, his way of keeping house annoys me. I feel so drained that all I want is to sleep for a few months and now I'm starting to feel guilty for not coming across in the bedroom. But my mind just says 'nononononono' when it comes to physical intimacy with him. What do I do?
2007-11-14
02:14:34
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5 answers
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Elle Dee
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