Other - Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

My friend keeps going on about how she feels pathetic still being a virgin at 18.I've been reassuring her that she has nothing to worry about and that the time will come but she won't listen!Recently shes been talking about just doing it with some randomer to get it over with!I think she'd be making a huge mistake!!
I;m 19 and only recently lost mine to the guy I love and it was perfect.This is how I know the inprtance of waiting for the right guy!
I'm so afraid she'll do something stupid that shes going to regret!I don't know what to say or do!
How can I convince her to hold on?

2007-11-05 06:26:05 · 4 answers · asked by Pixie-Flames 2

if yes how many?
and what kind of relation do you have with him?

2007-11-05 06:14:48 · 13 answers · asked by girl24gr 3

mostly women would answer and advise me on this matter.Thx to u all.

2007-11-05 06:06:29 · 8 answers · asked by N 3

We have 5 kids, ages: boy-16, girl-12, boy-4, boy-2, and girl-2 months. Any ideas of how to give the kids a magical Christmas on a Very small budget? We are outdoorsy, but the middle girl is verry girly. Any ideas for her? Im not really worried about the baby, but I cant afford a ton of gifts per child. How many would be sufficiant?? I appreciate the help.

2007-11-05 03:37:00 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do you think we have to bullsh!t one another so much in life? I think we are less happier in life, because honesty is not valued anymore. It seems like if we aren't lying to one other, then we almost feel uncomfortable. For example:

If a guy asks a girl for her number: Why cant she just say, "I'm not interested" or "Thanks anyway", instead of lying about a boyfriend that doesn't exist or some other non truth?

How about when guys say that they want women to be more real and honest with them, then when she comes out and says, "You know what, I really want to make love to you tonight" or hits on him, he considers it too forward and loses interest because he doesn't have to chase her like a dog. Maybe it's intimidation. I'm not sure, but we apply all of these "Rules of the game" when we don't need to. Society and men have convinced women that we are tramps if we sleep with a man on the 1st date and we shouldn't call right away etc. Whereas, men can without judgment. Why the games???

2007-11-05 03:26:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-05 03:16:24 · 3 answers · asked by Phillip K 1

last weekend i kissed a fella i shouldn't have and now i can't stop thinking about him. i've seen him three times since and every opportunity he gets he grabs me and flirts or else rubs my back making sure peoople can't see. both of us are in a relationship for the past few years.
i love my fiance but can't hardly sleep thinking bout this other man.
he has also text me things like "how are u today babe".
he also hinted about bringing me away ect and telling me how wonderful and gorgeous i am.
he also says that he'll neber be the same after what happened
what do ye think is going through his mind

2007-11-05 03:08:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out that an ex boyfriend of mine, who put me through hell and stole, lied, etc., got out of prison in GA in June of this year. He'd been in since 2004, when I participated in a sting operation with the US Marshalls to put him there (I wasn't kidding when I said he was a bad dude). His last words to me were that he was going to 'get' me - now he's out, and I am scared. He was in the pen in GA, and I live in OK, so there's that - he doesn't know my address or place of work, and I have changed my car since he knew me. The only information he has is my dad's address - I am afraid he would go there.

What can I do to protect myself?

2007-11-05 02:43:13 · 16 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5

I am 17 years old from north east Scotland. I only just found out i have a brother who is 25, The only things i know about him is he is originally from Buckhaven, his name is Christopher, Surname possibly Murphy, and he is in one of the British Forces. I have already contacted the Forces but because of the DPA (Date Protection Act) They are unable to tell me anything. Does anybody have any ideas ? Thanks.

P.S Jeremy Kyle is a last resort :).

2007-11-05 02:40:04 · 8 answers · asked by Maguire 1

they dont even know about me yet, im sure they will by then BUT.... my question is ....
what is the best way to handle that situation,
should i bring something- for them, foodwise,if so any suggestions
what is the best way to act, dress, talk
We are in Love and i REALLY need to make a wonderful impression. -they apparently loved her ex so thats what im up against, they of course dont know a lot of details regarding him that i do... SHOULD I TELL THEM.... LOL.. JOKING
anyway, any thoughts, feeling or suggestions on this subject will be greatly appriciated.
thank you
have a good thanksgiving... praying to God that I do as well
,' )

2007-11-05 02:37:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've recently had a major healing in my life and now things are different. I'm living in a new place, have started doing new things. I no longer fit with the people I interacted with in the past. I used to be around a lot of very self-centered people who used me to get their own needs met and were never around when I needed them. Since I've learned to love myself I no longer want those kinds of relationships and am looking for more equality and mutual respect.

Has anyone else here gone through this kind of profound kind of change? How did you go about finding new people in your life? Did you just attract them or did you do something different? None of my old behaviors seem to fit me anymore - even if I behave the way I did in the past, it doesn't quite fit - if that makes sense.

Any insight that you can share would be most welcome.

Thanks!

C

2007-11-05 02:26:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous