Other - Family & Relationships - 15 April 2007

My partner and i want to get married next Jan, I just dont know how to broach the subject with my parents, we dont really get on that well i the black shpp of the family and they have never really liked my partner although they are civil to him... they belive that he is "too common" (they are snobs of the 1st degree) i really want them to have an involvemnet in the planning etc but i just dont know how to start to tell them about our plans........ Any ideas??

2007-04-15 03:16:05 · 8 answers · asked by cadippoz 1

2007-04-15 03:01:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today my daughter is going to be an alter server at her church for the 1st time. It's a big thing for her. We bought her a nice outfit to wear. I'd like my husband to accompany me to watch her 1st day as an alter server. We have a difference in opinion as to if he should go with me or not. He doesn't want to because he is not a church going person. He asked why does he have to go if i am not making my older son who is 15 go. I said i'd like for him to accompany me, thats what married people do. What's your opinion on this issue?

2007-04-15 02:55:20 · 10 answers · asked by denise b 2

BORDERLINE pERSONALITY DISORDER?
How do I know if my ex girlfriend has borderline...see below
Please Help Me!!!!!?
I am in hell! I have been in the most dysfunctional realtionship for the last two years, The woman lies to my face, and tells me that everything is okay and then dumps via me email or text only to come back the next week. This happens because her parents run her life..they make her come home every weekend at 28 years old. She has left me and come back like 20 times in the last six months...Why am I not nbeing a man and saying enough is enough??? Why can I not say it's over to her? Why do I keep taking this abuse? Any thoughts would be great....I need advice on what is wrong with me??

2007-04-15 02:30:43 · 12 answers · asked by fuji 1

if not, would u? knw ne1 who has?

2007-04-15 02:23:37 · 19 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3

at first my boyfriend was very inlove with me. he almost gave me everything special..he always wants to see me..always escape his duty just for me..(no sex involved).. then we always quarrel because he was jelouse, he only wants me to be in school, home and with him nothing more. then its like i became a ******. i always give him a head ache already.. now we already our 2 yrs together.. we are already hurting each other verbally.. its like we already have a gap and our chests are like very heavy towards one another already.. then when we had a vacation.. he raped me:c he raped me 3 times and that is the first time we had sex.. i feel bad about it because i am not yet ready to have sex (i am 23 he is 26) now..its like he doesnt respect me anymore.he says he loves me but he always gets hot tempered at me easily.. i can feel that some things are changing..its just like his love for me is not that strong anymore.. i want his love to come back? but how? please give me tips.. PLEASE. thx. :c

2007-04-15 02:10:37 · 6 answers · asked by mini 1

me and my boyfriend months ago had a fight and we broke up. when we were together again i asked him if he had done anything stupid while we broke up and he told me that he had sex with a bar girl.but when i told him that i still love him and willing to accept him and cried about it he suddenly told me that it wasnt true and just wants me to cry because he was still angry. but..i still want to know the truth if he did it. can any psychologists or experts out there help me to deal with my boyfriend. how will i let him tell me the truth? how will i ask him and talk to him? what will i say in order for him to tell me the truth without being afraid? please help. thank you.

2007-04-15 01:04:08 · 11 answers · asked by mini 1