Other - Family & Relationships - 12 August 2006

I tried explaining to my boyfriend that we rarely passionately kiss, it's always pecks and I'm tired of it. He said it's not me, he just doesnt think about it. We got into a big fight about it because he said it's my problem and if he doesnt think about it like when we're watching a movie or cuddling then I should remind him. He says I should be doing something about it. I disagree and think he should be doing something about it. I tried to express to him how unhappy I am because of this and I feel that if he wanted to make me happy he would just do something about it on his own to make it better. If I already expressed my issue and I feel he's not doing something that makes me happy, shouldn't it be up to him to take action and be more involved and more attentive to the issue? Or is it up to me to remind him to passionately kiss me if he's not thinking about it?

2006-08-12 10:13:57 · 30 answers · asked by vane7997 1

I have a nephew who is always doing drugs. He has been in and out of jail for years and cannot stay clean. He has stolen from everyone in the family, but always comes begging for help when he becomes homeless and has nothing to eat. My father inlaw always helps him. He says that he is family and he would feel bad if he didn't help him. After all he does love him. It is his grandson. What would you do?

2006-08-12 09:51:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-12 09:46:52 · 5 answers · asked by matthew_holmes2000 2

i am going around with sm1 n got physical wid him but didnt do sex but smthing? may b it ws oral sex n i confess dis to my boyfrd who is nt here fr last7months but i still luv my lv d most,me n my lv r in touch through mails,i like dis new guys company n b wid him n his other mates,my luv is very upset n nt talking to me rt now but i no tat he'll undersatnd me wen i talk to him face to face,wenevr i meet dis new guy he cant control n just touch me though i dont hv such desier coz tat time i miss my lv n think if i do anything den wt i gonna say to my lv,i respect my lv relatship,new guy nos abt me n my lv,he's nt here so it dosnt matter to him,but i wanna b sincere to my lv,i talk to new guy n explain him all d time tat i wanna give him a company coz i also like his company n his frds aswell,now he asked me to share bed but promised he wont do anything n i know i am not gonna do anythING IF I GO THERE N JUST SLEEP DOS IT MEAN TAT I BETRAYED MY LV,BUT I DONT WNT TO BETRAY HIM?

2006-08-12 09:41:22 · 4 answers · asked by zubeee 1

I think I know who it is but the call comes up as private or unknown. When I answer, they just listen then hang-up.

2006-08-12 09:41:18 · 2 answers · asked by DANO 1

I don't have tons of money and it seems like he has everything. Our anniversary is in January, what do I get him?
He likes swords, i've already bought three. He likes dragons, don't really know where to find them. Doesn't fish, no sports, I don't know. Please help!?

2006-08-12 09:39:46 · 12 answers · asked by ~SSIRREN~ 6

Seems like all kids here.

2006-08-12 09:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by Handsup 3

2006-08-12 09:37:36 · 8 answers · asked by lancaster_hayley 1

I recently told my mom's friend that I was free on two days for a labor day party. While waiting to hear which day the party was going to be, my cousin (who lives two hours away) scheduled a party for Sunday. My mom's friend called and said that she decided to have her party on Sunday. Which should I attend, the family party or the my mom's mom's friend's party that I originally said I was available to attend?

2006-08-12 09:25:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-12 09:25:21 · 24 answers · asked by matthew_holmes2000 2

Ok well theres this boy and we have dated for a few times and he just keeps coming back like we wont talk for a really long time and all the sudden we talk all the time my friends think that i should forget about him but idk they say that he uses me to get SOME but how can i figure out if thats its true? should i talk to him or should I wait to see what happeneds

2006-08-12 09:22:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-12 09:21:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

which is fine. But then she comes home and tells you she moving out because she found someone else and she never really loved you anyway?
My brother had been with his girlfriend for 15 years, was raising her son as his own and never made her work.
She told him she was taking all the furniture eventhoug she didn't pay for any of it, said she would cause problems if he didn't give it to her.
She pawned her engagement ring, my brother at least got it back.
Now that her new friends don't want anything to do with her she is calling my family and wanting to be friends. She wants to be "Friends" with my brother now.
How do you deal with something like that? No one ever wants to see their family members get hurt.

2006-08-12 09:20:10 · 1 answers · asked by ~SSIRREN~ 6

Doctor?
Engineer?
Business man?
Jobless?
Any other profession you like?

Give the answer and also why you would chose that?

2006-08-12 09:18:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

She disappeared with some guttersnipe five days ago. If you see her please tell her not to worry about Soaps. I've looked after her.

2006-08-12 09:12:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-12 09:09:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

These last few weeks have been the worst of my life...my mum got diagnosed with heart failure,i got messed around by a girl who im still argueing with and my dog went missing...i just feel like **** and think my life cant get any worse.,...is this depression? How can you tell if you are depressed?

2006-08-12 09:03:51 · 22 answers · asked by Skillz_That_Killz 2

on the 17th and i dont know what to get him...hes turning 15 and of course im not going to get him anything big but i want to get him something nice...i asked him what he wanted but he said nothing..i dont even care about it....what would any of you guys want your girlfriend to get you???

anybody have any ideas of what i can get him....

2006-08-12 09:02:32 · 2 answers · asked by mzshorty... 2

My sister-in-law and her girlfriend are all ways doing that after they go jogging and they just giggle like little kids. Is this normal for adult women.

2006-08-12 09:01:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-12 08:53:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got a deep tissue massage on tues, hair appointment on wed, make time for my friends, wash my car, get some sleep, ... it never ends

2006-08-12 08:53:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend has been writing me and i answer him back he let me know that he still love me and somehow i feel the someway about my ex , but i'm confuse coz i love my husband he is so kind and he makes me feel alive but my ex keep writting me and he thinks i still love him , what should i do how can i know for sure who do i love more .

2006-08-12 08:36:12 · 9 answers · asked by girly girl 1

Notice that often women don't realise the way men talk out of ear shot - just wondered why they do?

If their wife is so bad - why not leave? If they want to cop off with other people - why get married in the first place? Why moan about their wife's contribution to the family finances yet not step up to the mark and help more with the familial and house chores at the same time?

Makes me so irked..

2006-08-12 08:33:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i recently broke up with my girlfriend. she got angry because i said " that she made the biggest mistake by hooking up with me." she took it very seriously. i love her a lot and i really want her back. what shud i do to get her back in my life? talks are not helping me..!!! plz help......serious answers only as i am suffering a lot. so NO CRAP plz

2006-08-12 08:32:37 · 9 answers · asked by broken_heart 4

my boyfriend refuses to have sex with me .i havnt been intimate with him in 6 months.im sure hes seeing someone.we dont even talk to each other anymore.but i cant afford to leave him yet.im saving to at least be able to have gas money .he also hits me.so would it b immoral if i had a quickie with someone?

2006-08-12 08:26:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Internet porn especially goes way beyond a 'natural' act in that it is very much from a male perspective..

Women have to be corrected to the 9's.. there is no affection/respect/consideration - often the woman is body to be used/abused/discarded and called all manner of names at the same time..

Porn often too requires the user to up the ante - biology surely did not intend for people to see 10,000 naked bodies etc so technology to some extent distorts the original drive..

It cannot be healthy that women are habitually called s****, w*****, b***** etc..

Often women think they are on equal terms with men sexually but what is so equal about having to compete with this distorted way to view sex?

2006-08-12 08:25:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

is that a bad thing or a good thing this happened to my cousin last night....he told her that he wanted to keep them for good luck

2006-08-12 08:22:45 · 27 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3

Have been with my partner for 11 years,no children,no ties and am still crazy about him.Get butterflies when he comes home and feel guilty sometimes that I am sooooo happy.
Does any-one else have the ''Love Bug?''

2006-08-12 08:20:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I suspect whilst said female thinks the males are admiring her lovely body/thinking how pretty she is that the guys are thinking in predatory terms.. she is body to them to be used/fantasised about and therefore not respected.. is this true?

Wondered too if because men have the unconscious need to be sure of paternity - that any sign that a woman is promiscous leads them to be so scathing of her.. optimising opportunities but calling her for everything..

Thoughts be appreciated..

2006-08-12 08:19:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Confused??

2006-08-12 08:17:20 · 9 answers · asked by alexandrairvine 2