My ex-boyfriend has been writing me and i answer him back he let me know that he still love me and somehow i feel the someway about my ex , but i'm confuse coz i love my husband he is so kind and he makes me feel alive but my ex keep writting me and he thinks i still love him , what should i do how can i know for sure who do i love more .
2006-08-12 08:36:12 · 9 answers · asked by girly girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop talking to your ex. Period. That will solve everything.
2006-08-12 08:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop writing to the ex. you dont owe a guy that you used to go with anything. by writing, im thinking that the ex is locked up. every guy that has the opportunity to write anybody wants to keep somebody on the outside to do what he cant. and most are users that have a hussle going on.
do you want to be hussled?
you are married now and its not to the ex. if the ex thinks that you still love him, then what made him think that?
do not write him, do not call him, do not take calls from him. leave him alone and pay some attention to the one that married you because he really did love you.
2006-08-16 16:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
immediately terminate any type of contact with your ex bf. he is a fool , stupid and just playing with you. as you are married and having good life he might just want to ruin it out of his jealousy. those type of emotions are very common and he is trying to blackmail by those emotions. never ever fall into his trap. if he was perfect or if he really loved you he could have taken more initiatives and come back to you before you got married. now its none of your business. let him go alone. now you just concentrate in your family in your husband. definitely you would think life may be better with your ex but that is human nature and by following that instinct most people gone astray. because its a false artificial attraction. everything would be fine. and as you said your husband is kind and makes you happy, so how can you even think of cheating with him? please just concentrate in your husband and remove anyother man's thought immediately. did you have a discussion with your husband about your ex? if not pls do so, this will resolve many problems and both of you can come up with a nice solution. this also strenghten the bonding between husband/wife
good luck.
2006-08-12 15:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Deepthoughts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your ex, that you are married to a beautiful person that you love so much, and that between you and him (your ex) every thing is off, that stop trying to ruing your marriage.
If your husband is a person with the feet on the ground, show him the letters.
2006-08-12 15:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
change your email address and don't talk 2 him any more. homewreckers isn't just a term for women. he is one, too. he might be exciting right now because it seems forbidden, but is he really worth being kicked to the curb by someone who is "so kind" and "makes you feel alive" ??? don't do this to your husband, and don't do it to yourself, either. of the few of my girlfriends who have cheated on their husbands and told me about it, they have ALL regretted it. YOU have the opportunity to stop this thing before anything even starts.
2006-08-12 15:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Hot Lips 4077 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the ex alone girl don't f*ck up your marriage. Especially if you have kids! What if he was doing that to you. Marriage is not something to be indecisive about. You are making a huge mistake!
2006-08-12 15:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by lizzy*lou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Bonita,
Its all in your head. You should discuss this with you close friend or if you have the courage tell this to you hubby. I think in a sincere relationship you should not hide anything from your hubby. It is unfair from him and it will affect your marriage in the long run.
2006-08-12 15:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by jemmie_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break all ties with your ex. Thats the only way to solve this problem. If you don't you might as well forget about your marriage.
2006-08-12 15:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by jrollo76 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your first mistake was answering to continue writing. Your acting like a sluuuuut and I would'nt want to be married to a person like you.
2006-08-16 18:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋