if he has an idea and i don't praise it but instead try to discuss it (both negative and positive sides) he will say that i am complaining.
if i am sick and he wants me to go to a party and i am not thrilled about going, i am complaining.
he seems to take my words as direct a direct reaction to his decisions, plans etc. when often my mood has nothing to do with him. if i have a crappy day he thinks i'm blaming it on him (or so it seems) and no matter how much i try to tell him that it is not his fault, that he is actually making me feel better he tells me all this crap about complaining later.
no matter how i try to explain to him what is going on with me he doesn't listen. he thinks he's right.
i care about him and don't want to break up over this, i want to get past the barrier of miscommunication.
HELP!
2006-06-07
20:58:40
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9 answers
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curious kitty
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