Ok, i'm so sick of this...it seems like every guy I date uses me! I dont know what to do anymore. I really care about my boyfriend right now..but, I dont think he feels the same way. Whenever he talks about me to other people all he says is "God, she's so hot! And she has such a nice ***!"..things like that. I really care about him. I'm just sick of it. I may be "hot" but...I'd rather be beautiful for who I am inside!!! WHAT DO I DO?!! Please Help!!
2006-06-07 20:36:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-06-07 20:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by ONE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have a real problem on your hands . But sont feel like your alone. im sorry to say , but the times of romantics are gone! most guys today only see a trophy , not a "GIRL/WOMAN" ! Women have taken advantage of guy's for a very l;ong time now and its not going to end very soon. In your case if your real sensitive about this , you only have a couple of things you can do....leave him and find someone new, or take a chance and say something to him ..like how it steps on your toes when he does that ( hurts your feelings ). best of luck to you !
one thing you might try ..look in the mirror and see what kind of a pushover you really are? ? ? ? are you one or not?
2006-06-07 20:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by thunderson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Dump the prick who says you have a nice whatever...You deserve MUCH better. Second, Don't blame yourself too much for "attracting pricks", because there are so many of them, you're bound to run into a few. We have all been there. Good news is, the older you get, the easier it is to weed them out. Now, I can spot one as soon as he speaks.{ they look so good until they talk, don't they?} Do not settle girl! As soon as you feel disrespected, RUN!!!! YOU are in control, not them. And remember, no one can use you unless you let them.
2006-06-07 20:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that your good looks are causing you problems. Perhaps you are choosing shallow boyfriends because you are looking at the outside and not the inside?
2006-06-07 20:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him...and when you find the right guy, give it Time and don't not have sex with a new guy you meet...let him get to know your heart first..and he will respect you...take months, don't sleep with him...this guy your with sounds like he is just using you..don't allow him.. and don't stay with him he makes you feel cheap...
2006-06-07 20:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 12:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should play hard-ball... Tell a guy up straight, you ain't to be used... If that is his intention, HIT THE ROAD!!!
If you ever wanna talk, gimme a shout... ;)
2006-06-07 20:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋