i was in a relationship for 2 years and he called his self breaking up with me because he said i was tripping to hard on him when he would leave for 5 hours and wouldnt call or check up on me mind u we were in the same building at this time. so when we broke up we were still messing around... 1 day i had came to his house and he was holding another girls hand... this was like a week after we broke up so i threw my keys toward his face and they missed so i punch him in his face because i had felt so disrespected because he had told me to come back and for me to come back and 2 c that.. was just totally a let down for me... let me know how u would have handled it and what u felt i should have done differently
2006-06-07 19:10:53 · 21 answers · asked by sweetshimami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ms .sweet , for one you cannot change what has already happened so let that part go . You were hurt real bad at the moment, I personally could not trust a person who would prettyb much try there hardest to convince me to beleive in them and then turn around and break your heart. He obviously dont care to be true to one woman. I would leave him in my past . take a little time to yourself . when you are able to forgive him ,then you then will know you are able to Love again.
2006-06-07 19:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by belizeigram 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have turned around and not said a word. I would have left. What good did it do to punch him in the face.When you found about the other girl. That should have been enough for you. It was telling you a lot right there. He apparently had other girls on his mind. The only thing I would do now is forget about him. I feel like you wanting him to call you within a five hr. time frame is not good. He may have felt you were checking up on him all the time and decided that he didn't want this. Most people need more Independence than that. I would chalk this off as experience and not be so clingy next time around; if there is a next time with him. In the mean time don't let the grass grow under your feet. Stay involved in something else and try to get him off your mind.
2006-06-08 02:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had to check in with you every five hours? Wow, you have some growing up to do.
and yeah punching anyone is the wrong thing to do....you need to be told this?
Maybe you got a hot bod..... becasue you sure don't sound like someone who could be my or anyone elses girl friend.
Advice? Well for starters.... ah nevermind. You will revert back to your same old way next week anyway.
2006-06-08 02:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by michael_lovin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing my dear you should understand about men is that, if you give them an inch they will take a mile. this is not passing judgement on you, but from your actions one would get that you don't respect yourself you might think you do but look at it this way the guy breaks up with you coz you're trippin' right? but you still mess around with him in the full knowledge that he doesn't respect you enough to be in a relationship with you still you react to him being with another lady. if you could stomach him treating you the way he did wh y react the way you did? if he did this to you he definately would do it to someone else but i don't entirely blame him. coz it all begins with you. if you don't respect yourself enough to take control of your owwn life what makes you htink he will he is just a reflection og how you feel yourself. the best payback is not resorting to physical violence. the best revenge. is being complete in your self learning to love yourself and appreciateing who you are. there is nothing as attractive as a woman confident in herself. look at your self first and decide if your actions were called for or you would have acted differently
2006-06-08 02:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by the a.m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not much a punching person. but I would definitely would have been mad too. Especially if he said he want u to come back. I wouldn't also said yeah! it was great last week. LOL. It would definitely let her the other women know he wasn't honest.
2006-06-08 02:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by tannya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a person used to break it off with me I would see it like this.I wouldn't be mad cause they just weren't the one for me or elese they would've still been with me.Although I would've been mad and I have been in the same situation as you.I seen it like this.Why let them make me the smaller person by lashing it just gives them an excuse as to why they broke up in the first place.
2006-06-08 02:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1: you knew what he was doing in the first place
#2: you liked it, other wise you would have let HIM go
#3: be mad at your self
#4: no need to get physical
#5: the best way to make him feel bad is to make yourself feel good by keeping it movin'
#6: build your self-esteem baby gurl
2006-06-08 02:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bw/TRUTH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would of done the same thing but actually I would punch him in the face then kick him in the balls and then telling him what a jerk he is
2006-06-08 02:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanted to throw my keys in his face just reading the question. Sometimes the decisions that we make are based upon immediate overwhelming feelings. Would you do it over if you could?..probably so. I probably would want to.
2006-06-08 02:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay, everyone has a different reactions in every situation. i know he understand why you behaved that way. forget him, if he really wants to come back for you, he's the one who make the moves, explain what happened and ask for forgiveness.
2006-06-08 02:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by babypards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋