Friends - February 2007

I don't really know if I should or not. Last night I was at this dance/fundraiser thing the high schoolers put on for the middle schoolers. I have social anxiety disorder, and I knew tonight it was really going to be bad and wasn't sure if I should go. But I went because I knew it would probably be one of my last chances to do anything like this. But it was worse than it has ever been. I was visibly distressed, and people noticed and were asking if I was okay. The thing is these two girls who are my friends were so nice to me and I was nice but just couldn't talk to anybody last night. They know me pretty well and understand I have some kind of problem but the thing is they're so outgoing it might be hard for them to understand me. I don't know if I should apologize and explain that I have social anxiety disorder. I don't care if they know honestly but I don't know if that's telling them too much. I just want them to understand and know I like them.

2007-02-03 02:41:28 · 6 answers · asked by leena 4

i'm 22, so i am aware that this sounds a bit immature, but my bff of 10 years has always been a major copycat. let me explain. i wanna move to NY after i graduate, she's never been there and always says she wants to live near the beach in LA after college, but now she suddenly is looking for jobs in NY. also, she has tons of hobbies/activities that i don't take part in (dancing, surfing, etc.) b/c those things "just aren't my thing" but i respect that they are "her thing." meanwhile, whenever i take up a hobby or finally have something that i feel i can call "my thing" (photography, fashion design) she has to do that too. it's like even with her busy schedule, she still always has to do everything that i do as well. i know photography and fashion design aren't exclusive to me alone, but c'mon now. i look for new things just so i can have my own life, but she always follows me! i never have any stories to tell her or activities to "share" w/ her b/c she's right there w/ me every time!

2007-02-03 02:36:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tomorrow night is the super bowl here in American it's a big day for football fans all around. I am not working today because my sister's sweet 16 is tonight and I am coming home from college to see her. Tomorrow i am working from 1-6. A friend of mine is BEGGING ME to work his sift tomorrow night from 5-9....i purposely requested that I could only work 1-6 because i got invited to a party tomorrow night....and now my friend is calling me a HUGE JERK because i wouldn't cover his shift. I told him he should have requested off and considering he didn't that why he got stuck with the S*it shift. He hasn't watched the super bowl in 3 years because he's ALWAYS been working....i know we've been good friends and everything but it's my decision. He came up to my dorm this morning and cursed and me telling me i'm an A*S Hole for not covering his shift and that I'm being selfish.

-Am i being a jerk for not covering his shift??
-Am i being selfish?
-PLEASE HELP!!!-

2007-02-03 02:16:47 · 7 answers · asked by Mike T 2

we used to hang out in the 70"s

2007-02-03 02:14:22 · 1 answers · asked by Les the painter 4

I broke up with my ex a few months ago, and we really dont get along. Last night my so-called-friend Allana, came over and went on her aim account to IM my ex Andy, and this guy named Thomas who I used to be friends with. Allana said,"Jenna's not here, I swear, what do you think about her?" Then Andy typed,"This girl Shannon said she dresses really weird and shops at weird places which is why I don't like her anymore." 1st off, Andy told me when we were going out, he likes me cuz I dont care how I dress! And 2nd, I hung out with Shannon once, and she was a slut, I really didnt like her! Ok, so then we IM'ed Thomas who told Allana:" Yeah, you're cooler than Jenna, every1 knows that. Thats why we dont like her." Thomas and Andy used to be SO nice! And then Allana asked,"How come I'm not annoying and Jenna is?" Andy said,"Oh, I dont care if you're annoying, Jenna's a spaz." I bursted out in tears and Allana was saying,"I know I'm more cool." Im losing all my friends HELP!

2007-02-03 02:01:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

example;
I bet shes good in the sack.

2007-02-03 01:40:46 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanna spy in my sis's bedroom so that i can see what shes doin?But in a way that i shouldn't get caught?

2007-02-03 01:18:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

he used to be nice but now hes mean and weird. he thinks hes kool but he isnt. wat do i do

2007-02-03 01:13:54 · 19 answers · asked by greg g 5

♥did u fall♥ did u get in trouble, or sum like dat♥

2007-02-03 01:05:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i'm in a class with only 3 girls and 10 boys. and i'm in a clique with 5 boys and i'm the only girl. and the guys in my class treat me really well. when they knew i had gastric, the guys all wanted to accompany me to grab a bite even though they knew we were gonna be late for some event. and one of the girl in my class found out about it..she got really pissed. she's jealous about me because the guys treat me very well.i don't know why they treat me like this but yeah..i'm a very cheerful and bubbly girl and i get along well with everyone but this girl in my class seemed to get jealous of me though she doesn't really show it but i can tell. and she's drifting apart from me now. we used to be rather close but now, we aren't and there are only 3 girls(including me)in my class..the other one is closer to the girl who's jealous of me. how do i make her not feel jealous?i don't flirt with the guys or anything.i'm usually rather quiet in class and she's the loud one.

2007-02-03 00:45:23 · 1 answers · asked by Larissa 1

Please give me your opinion!!!?
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2007-02-03 00:44:17 · 6 answers · asked by Faby 1

2007-02-03 00:15:00 · 45 answers · asked by tupelohoney 2

when can you say that you have a real friend?

2007-02-03 00:06:49 · 16 answers · asked by wildspirit91 1

How should i react to elderly's obsessive behaviour?
i met this elderly men 2 years ago, he was a lonely single man living by himself, i am 24, he is 81. At the time i feel sorry for him so i help him out on a weekly basis such as shopping, taking him to hopital, i also meet him once a week for coffee. but recently he is getting more demanding on how often i should call him and spending time with him. I have a boyfriend and my own life, i spent around 4 hours with him on saturday this week but he still think its not enough. also he wants us to go on a day trip on a regular basis. I really feel sorry for his loneliness but i have my own life to go on, what should i do?

2007-02-03 00:06:01 · 9 answers · asked by saegiie 1

i in university...she is in polytechnic....far from me....n i always heard tha she close wif her friends...i afraid if she will forget me....we r bestfriend since 2004.....but,she say ..she luv me as her bestf...

2007-02-02 23:59:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

On line friends are all over the world. So i too thaught of to get to know you friends who s any where in the world.

2007-02-02 23:58:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-02 23:46:21 · 4 answers · asked by Curious 1

one of my friends seems to want to make my dating life miserable. whenever there's a guy i like, she always seems to like him too, and then she tells me to back off. she told me to stay away from her other guy friends, ones that i have no romantic interest in, and NOW she's going out with my ex boyfriend, and i just broke up with him 3 days ago. a bit controlling huh?

she's done this to me before, and i've had enough. i don't know any ways to make her stop doing it without beating the hell out of her.

so the question is... how do i approach her without blowing up? because she is going to accuse me of being jealous (even though there's nothing to be jealous of, honestly) and all this other crap. what to do?

2007-02-02 23:19:45 · 10 answers · asked by oxoangeliaoxo 2

i turned 26 today. and yes, i know what you're going to say, 'happy birthday'. however, the day has not gone well for me so far. up until this point, i got an email from one of my mates at uni during the week telling me that our dinner plans which coincide to celebrate my birthday have been cancelled and re- arranged for next saturday. now, i tried calling my other friends to find out from them whether they were free on saturday because i made plans with them as well. instead, there was no reply from them and i left a message on their answering machines. i doubt they'd ring back. so far, i feel dissapointed because i was looking forward to this occassion. but instead, i am in a way disheartened that things haven't gone to plan. am i right to feel this way? serious answers only please

2007-02-02 23:09:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

any ideas would be appreciated, her birthdays tomorrow - i need a slap on the hand for leaving it so late, but i think i've brought myself some time because i don't see her until tuesday. She's loud and brash - into her music but she has an ipod so i'm not buying her music. i have a budget between £100-£150. Thankyou!!

2007-02-02 23:03:55 · 7 answers · asked by Faith 5

2007-02-02 22:57:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-02 22:54:02 · 7 answers · asked by neha 1

2007-02-02 22:34:23 · 13 answers · asked by pranitha p 1

my happiest moment i would say is this year i have a boyfreind im quite fond of my saddest is when my mom died

2007-02-02 22:18:26 · 7 answers · asked by dee_ann 6

2007-02-02 22:08:39 · 9 answers · asked by plaban 1

I never had a best friend, and I am 17 years old right now.
Is there something wrong with me?

2007-02-02 21:50:50 · 13 answers · asked by teejay 2

Well Iasked this guy out 2 times and he said no! But I really like him and all. Then I asked him why he does not like me and he said that he does not know why, But I have a feeling he likes me. What do I do????????????????? HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-02 21:36:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Give me some idea to win back their trust, or some other idea
i dont want to break away from them, as it is impossible to find a friend group of equal level of mine...
i will b thankful for each answerer

2007-02-02 21:30:50 · 3 answers · asked by rockubabe 1

I've been trying encourage my best friend to get help for anger management and dealing with serious effects of a traumatic experience involving her dad passing away and her being present. She also has serious self esteem issues. I know If a person doesn't want our help, that's their choice. I want to know how I can cope with this. any suggestions?

2007-02-02 21:28:38 · 5 answers · asked by empathetic 1

there is this guy i loved. he is 23 years old. he loved me too i guessed. there is lot of chemistry between us but he had never took me out or something one thing he did is calling me everyday to come over to his house. he lived near but i don't loke to go to people's house for some reason. he got mad at me when i told him i can't go to his house everyday why can't we go somewhere else he said oh i was acting corny and weird. one day he sees walking down the street with my lit bro i said hi to him he totally ignored me. when i called i said so am i too ugly for you to say to me or are you ashamed of me he said he did not know oh he was not in the mood i said ok. i went over to his house for this time in life i was in the living home. he lived with his cousin who attracted by me. when his cousin came to the living room i was shocked i didn't if they were cousin. his cousin and i we have been talking for a while i have never told him if i had a b/f. his cousin never talked to me again.

2007-02-02 21:14:33 · 8 answers · asked by BERJEAFRIJUN 2