My closest friend of 15 years is going through IVF treatment, and I know that she wants it to succeed,she seems desperate for a baby . My problen is this : I feel that she wants a baby for all the wrong reasons, and I almost don't want it to work for her !
I have 2 kids myself, and I once had this need to have kids, so if anyone should understand, it should be !! She doesn't know how I really feel, but I just don't think she would be a good mum ! She's far too selfish, as she has forced her husband to agree to the IVF , when he clearly told her from the word go, that he didn't want kids.
I know you will all say that I'm the one being selfish here..but I know her so well .What do you all think? Should I be a bit more understanding, or tell her how I really feel? Please be gentle with me !!
2006-08-23
22:25:30
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Paris69
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