A friend of mine asks money from me almost very month around 500/1000/600 US$. But when I ask her to return me back she says "u dont consider me a friend" and then she gets upset. Shud i stop giving her money
2006-08-24 00:41:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
YES!!!! she is taking advantage that you have money to lend her.let her make her own money.She needs to be a friend & pay you back.money & friends dont mix.business is business. afriend wounldnt be so deceptive.
2006-08-24 01:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you need to have her pay back, or at least do not lend (actually you don't lend but you give) money to her anymore. Money is a serious topic and she cannot be mad at you for asking it back. She is not your wife, you are not married or anything like this, so you do not need to give her money, especiaslly if you see she does not pay it back.
My mother has some very good friends as well, who asked her to sign a paper at the bank that she will pay for their house if they were not able. Although she is good friend with those people, she never did it and was right, because money hasn't got anything to do with friendship.
I would stop giving her money and see how it evolves. If she does not come as often as she used to, that is a sign she only pretended to be your friend to get money. I would not wish this for you, but it could happen.
Best Wishes,
2006-08-24 00:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a real friend. STOP giving her money, she's just giogn to take it. You need to be serious w/ her and ask her to pay you back. Otherwise she's just goign to take advantage of your good heart. Again, she's not a friend, she's playing the guilty game on you. drop her!
2006-08-24 00:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a friend. She is using you. Lets see how much of a friend she will be when you stop giving her money. She won't give a rat's a** about you. Drop her.
2006-08-24 00:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should stop...a good friend would pay you back even if it's a couple hundred at a time. Look you work hard for you money and your friend should understand that....I'm sure she needs it for something urgent....but she should pay you back.
2006-08-24 00:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by Dina1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i think u should stop giveing her money if she don't return it 2 u,let me tell u some thing me & my friend whent 2 the movies she then she told me"i didn't brought money with me,can u pay 4 me then i'll pay u back?" i said"sure no problem" then i asked her at the movies her jacket then i 4 got 2 give her her jacket,so the next day she told me"give me my jacket"i told her"give me my money back then i'll give u ur jacket back"she dissagree so she never payed me back & i naver gaive her her jacket.so i think u should stop giving her money.
2006-08-24 00:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stop giving her money. You don't owe her anything. By her not paying you back, she can't say the same.
2006-08-24 00:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes immidiatly stop giving her money
2006-08-24 01:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, stop giving her money.
Or if you don't want to stop, before you give it to her, tell her it's a LOAN, and you expect to be paid back, and if you need, have her sign a contract about repaying the money.
2006-08-24 00:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course as she doesn't consider you a friend to use you this way!
2006-08-24 00:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋