I will admit that I am very over-possesive when it comes to my girlfriend. When she goes out, I have to know who she's going with, what exactly she is doing, if any boys are coming along, etc...
I know I shouldn't be so worried, but my worst fear is losing her to someone else. She keeps assuring me that she isn't like that, but no matter what she tells me, I can't believe her, even though she has never lied to me.
I always knew of this problem but never really thought much of it until she finally left me. I asked her why she left me and she said she wanted her own space and that I tie her down.
I love her with all of my heart and I keep trying to get her back, or at least asking her to give me a second chance when she has decided what she wants. She gives me a maybe and I can't live with that. I get that "if I can't have her, no one can", which leads straight back to being over possessive.
Should I consider some sort of counseling to get over my fears of being cheated on?
2006-06-24
14:30:54
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