Well, I got a real problem talking to girls.. Everytime I get to talk to one I always just go blank and I dont know what to say. I dont know why,but this always happens. Can you give me some tips on how I can stop being so shy? What would you girls like to hear from a person?
2006-06-24 14:21:43 · 12 answers · asked by pr_chicano@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Ask the girl about herself...although she will likely say that she doesn't like talking about herself, it will likely help start the conversation off well...Ask and tell about interests, stories, anything fun...tell jokes...etc. make girls laugh..we love it!!! "
i agree with that answer. girls LOVE to talk about themselves so start out by asking questions about her likes, dislikes, interests, job, etc. by doing this, you can generate conversation and even work your own experiences into the conversation as well. you could take it a step further by inviting her to an event or place that is about her interest, like: baseball game, ballet, movies, concert, etc.
when it comes to dating, you should probably be friends first with the girl so you can be comfortable around her and then build some more confidence to ask for more. girls are just as scared as you are so just take the 1st step and you'll get some response back.
2006-06-24 14:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by broadcast_girl79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate when guys that I am meeting for the first time telling me about how pretty I am , I am the most beautiful girl they ever seen a big turn off for me.I like when guys are real just being themselves.If you know something about the girl already , for eg. she plays a sport bring up something about that.Something that she is familiar with will be something interesting to talk about.Plus you can talk about family , friends , school ,there is so many things you can talk about that's if the girl is not stuck up and will talk with ya .Good luck with these minor tips
2006-06-24 21:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jachica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it might help ya to hang w/groups of your friends (hell, groups of guys like checking out groups of chicks).. Then you don't have to worry bout being so shy and all that.. after a while, maybe there is some (equally shy) chick eye-balling ya and you can hook up for the evening. Sound good? yeah, it's the best way for ya. It's hard as hell being one-on-one w/somebody. You gotta come across as (kinda overbearing) to get a girl's attention like that. I don't know why, but girls always fall for the overbearing loudmouths (that treat 'em like ****.) Now, why is that? sux. g'luck later (melancholia)
2006-06-24 21:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that you're on earth. Talk to her like she's a person... Don't stare at her blankly, you can create a concious in yourself that'll keep you awake whenever you're talking to a girl and soon talk to a girl as easily (or almost as easily) as you talk to a guy. I've tried that and even though I may be secretly liking the girl I'm talking to I don't rewill that... I just talk to her as human to human and it's not that hard...
Anyway, try it! You'll get used to it... Lots of luck!
2006-06-24 21:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by brother from QG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first get some chick friends so u get comfortable around girls
then just be ur self and dont focus so much on getting the girl
when u meet the right girl u will be able to talk to her and it will be magic
2006-06-24 21:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by ifunky_monkey13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to girls more...don't be shy ..it might be hard but hey...be like NIKE and just do it lol....Umm just ask things like so "what are you going to do today" things like that...and if the convo runs smoothly try "so you wanna hang out some time??"
Good Luck!
2006-06-24 21:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what ur talking of....so jsut get comforable eiz them...u shoould feel comfortable at first....just ask the basic questions how r u....wats up...wat about work keep taking of thse things....then later when u get closer to her...u can make jokes...make fun of eachother....and it will be ok....believe me...make as if every gurl u meet were as if ur best friend
2006-06-24 21:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by rapstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the girl about herself...although she will likely say that she doesn't like talking about herself, it will likely help start the conversation off well...Ask and tell about interests, stories, anything fun...tell jokes...etc. make girls laugh..we love it!!!
2006-06-24 21:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by chocolatechip333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and everything will come naturally! but if you really need help then just e-mail at sports2rhyme@yahoo.com and i will help you the best way that i can! but always remember to relax and dont get to nervous!
2006-06-24 21:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by shar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask about her when shes done talk about the sports she like the hobbies she enjoys if she enjoys something you do than invite her do that hobbie with you!!!!!
2006-06-24 21:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by ehmschic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋