i have meet this girl and we want to meet soon as good friends but she has said she wants to meet aswell, but is scared she will develop feelings for me and vice versa, we have spoken on the phone aswell she lives in the same city as me aswell, she says that she can't stop thinking about me and she checks her email to see if there are any messages from me and i do the same and i think about her too, do you think we both are developing feelings for eachother and is it a good idea to meet and see if there are feelings there or not and if there is should we deal with it and just continue being good friends do you think that is possible to do if we have feelings for one another, i think she is too young for me i am 32 and she is 18, what do you think we should do because as you know if the feelings are for real which when we will now, then what should we do just keep away from eachother or should we at least met as good friends because i am already involved with someone else
2006-06-24 14:23:44 · 14 answers · asked by mr a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd say you need to meet no matter what. Obviously you two have feelings for each other, and personally, I don't think that she is too young for you, but if you do, you at least need to become friends with her.
Let things go the way they go. If you end up going out with her, let it happen, but keep in mind that you have a girlfriend now. Only dump her if you feel that you have a stronger bond between you and this new girl than the bond between you and your girlfriend.
Good Luck!
2006-06-24 14:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by c90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should meet. If the age weren't a factor and you were both single I would say go for it. SHe probably gets excited because she lacks a father figure in her life and she sees you as one. Alot of young girls do this and alot of them "are in love with" people like you. To them the feelings are real until they realize they are not what they seem. This may take a long time but it will happen. Just my advise
2006-06-24 14:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Pixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should meet her to see whats there. You never know when true love will come along and then you may hate yourself bc you never found out. As far as the age thing....its just a number. This other person your involved with....if you dont love her and think about her like you do this other girl maybe its time to get out of the relationship. You have nothing to lose by meeting her and if you meet and theres nothing there you could still be friends. It think you will regret it if you dont meet her.
2006-06-24 14:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Amy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is way too young. Move on. Besides, you're an @ss because you are "ALREADY INVOLVED" with someone else. You also need to learn to make sentences, know when to use capitals and punctuation and you write like a middle schooler.
2006-06-24 14:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is way too young, in fact she is probably younger. And if you're with someone you shouldn't be wanting to meet anyone else. Also, your feelings aren't "real" because you don't even know her. Anyone can say anything on here and it doesn't mean ****.
2006-06-24 14:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 10:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, if you are not legally bonded to your partner. Then, get out of your current relationship if you do decide to date this girl--never cheat or the girl will think that you would cheat on her.
2006-06-24 14:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow 14 years apart.........Ok go for her but im thinking shes too young.Your to old.But u know love is love.Dont worry,this 13 year old loves this women who is 34.yeah................
2006-06-24 14:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhah dude im gonna see you on tv as a sex predator with a young girl hahha awesome
2006-06-24 14:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by halifax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem. Age doesn't matter. As long as you are good to each other and dont cheat.
2006-06-24 14:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by jmseymour1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋