They are both 19 and have been together for 4 years. She has sort of an engagement ring. She's fully employed as a CNA in a nursing home and he's a stocker and bagger at a grocery store. I admit, he's not as mature as he should be or as fully employed as he should be, but that's only part of the problem. The real problem is that she is very bossy, pushy, manipulative, and is most definitely the boss of the relationship. There are too many stories to tell, but I need advice on the latest that has been happening. He's been trying to save some money and he has an account that my husband opened for him and also he gives his girlfriend money to hold onto, because in her words, if he as his hands on his own money, he'll blow it right away. Which isn't far from the truth, actually. Now we want to open a checking account for him and she refuses to give him his money because it's now "theirs". And she still thinks he'll blow it all. What are your opinions?
2006-08-31
02:14:06
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kitten lover3
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Marriage & Divorce