We married 16-years ago after dating for two years. We married sooner than we planned because we were pregnant. The marriage started off badly because I still dearly loved a woman whom I had dated for eight years prior to my marriage. I resented my wife for getting pregnant - which was my immaturity. During the marriage we had financial problems and we had horrific fights - name calling, threats of divorce, intimidation tactics, etc. But we managed to do some fun things together and we had a great sex life. But things contiuned to sour. Then we both started to have extra-marital affairs. And then we started to withdraw emotionally. We tried to work it out but we decided to split up. I still care for her and she does for me but we caused so much pain in each others lives over the years. Now we took vows that said for better or worst, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, till death do us part. We had all of the aforementioned. When does a couple quit?
2006-06-12
18:15:15
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