We're both 41. Everytime he puts condom he loses erection, so we do it without. He knew I wasn't on pill, but came inside.He may've rationalized it knowing I want children. He does too. Cultural diffs are too great for us to have committed relatship. He is Moroccan/Spanish;I'm American. He's chauvenistic; I expect respect. I think he's irrational; he thinks I don't live in the moment. The biggest problem now is I fear him, that he will take kid away and I'll never see him again. This is a man with abundant resources and can fly the kid away in his helicopter or sail away on his boat. He even told me he had spent time looking for a surrogate mother, and wanted to raise a son in the rainforest of Brazil. I made it clear I wasn't the one for that.I've seen goodness in him, but he has mother issues, so may not respect the value of mother/child bond. He just left country for 2 yrs., but his fave home is in U.S. near me. He'll be back. I'd like to not tell him, but fear repercussions. Help!
2007-01-08
19:08:04
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