He just drops by the house without advance notice, rings the door bell and inserts himself just about everyday. I live in NYC and unannounced visits are never appropriate...afterall it could be any crazy. He tries to know our every move, makes friends with our room-mate and even gives her advice about us, takes our dogs out for long walks....even invited himself along on a weekend trip -- and included his newest Ex (I protested that one).
My boyfriend is not willing to do as I ask and tell him to lay off a little, lessen his involvement in our life (or just get one).
What should I do? Should I tell him he's got a tin-ear and that he's behaving like a loser? Or should I just give him a stern boundary, like he can come by only on certain days?
My dog's are where he makes the most remarkable penetration into our household...they respond to him with so much joy it's like he's the master...and I worry that may cause behavior trouble.
I don't suspect sex between he and my bf.
2006-08-09
04:42:42
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