are your scared of females or talking to them or no female have asked you out and you turned to your own sex. i just want to know becasue i am kind of curios. i am not gay but i am writting a paper on soicolgy.
2006-08-09 05:49:25 · 18 answers · asked by WEEDG 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i was gay because i was teased when i was in elementary school, i had no freinds and all i wanted was one cool guy freind to chill with... after a while it developed into lust, of wanted to be held or near a guy, and then yeah i turned out to be gay.. later though i gave my heart to Jesus and He forgave and delivered me from homosexuality, so now im straight!
2006-08-09 06:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to read up on the subject some then. (and if you're writing a paper, you need to spell-check).
people dont' "turn gay" they are born that way. it has nothing to do with being "afraid" of the opposite sex or never being asked out. (yes, I am a female, but this applies to us all). I'm not afraid of the opposite sex, and I have been asked out by them, but I was never interested.
I could ask you, did you chose to be straight? what made you become straight? are you afraid of your own sex or were you never asked out? no, you just are!
2006-08-09 06:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one million) they do no longer pick it. that's delivered approximately by applying the two exterior impacts, or chemical imbalances. 2) God did no longer lead them to gay. God would not hate gay human beings. He hates what they might do as a results of their emotions. Being gay isn't new. Homosexuality substitute into around while Jesus substitute into on earth. inspite of the undeniable fact that, in case you have been to assume for a 2nd that God created the international, and that the human race has fallen from their preliminary glory, then we've been turning out to be slowly greater broken as time is going on. that could desire to in-turn be preferable to the upward push of homosexuality, or a minimum of that is greater openness
2016-11-04 05:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by hartzell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is entirely possible for a WOMAN to CHOOSE Lesbian sex and partnership as an alternative to relationships went wrong with men in their past. Homosexuality as a whole though is not a choice. It is an orientation. We knew as little boys and little girls that we were gay. We new what we wanted to do to those of the same sex, as far as sexual relations go. Now whether we allowed Family, Friends, Or Society's "moral" guidelines to shape us or even used it as a crutch to repress our homosexual tendencies or behavior, is another thing all in itself. I was not abused and now I like men, I was not raised around mostly woman, and I didn't play with barbie dolls.
2006-08-09 06:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gay because that's how God made me, and God doesn't make junk! Who am I to question any of God's gifts?
I'm not "scared" of one gender vs. another. I know whom I am attracted to sexually.
Please ignore the hypocritical 'christian' responses that you will get on here, that preach hatred, bigotry, discrimination, and therefore violence against LGBT people. These people are completely un-christian in their thoughts, words, and actions. WWJD?
No one "becomes" gay, it how they are born. Some people just take longer to realize it and be comfortable with it. Some people never get comfortable with it and stay "in the closet" their whole lives. Some of the most hate-spewing anti-gay people have turned out to be closeted gay people - go figure!
2006-08-09 05:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one thing, your question is kind of silly for assuming that people choose or or become gay for a reason other than they are just that way by design.
I, speaking only for myself, assure you that I have been gay or attracted to guys for as long as I could consider such. I have never wanted to date females but I'm not scared of them. I have good female friends.
2006-08-09 06:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by Cymalon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing made me become gay, and I didnt choose to be gay. I just am. I've talked to plenty of girls and I am not afraid of them. i've talked to plenty of guys as well. I see girls as friend material not lover material. I've been asked out by girls and declined. BUt when a guy asked me out for the first time I couldn'y say yes fast enough; and everytime since I have only ben interesting in men
2006-08-09 05:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew I liked boys, not girls when I was five. Its the way our brains are "wired" - science is showing that it can happen in the womb when something happens to throw off the balance of hormones being delivered to the developing fetus's brain. Pheromones are likely to be the key. You develop receptors for a particular pheremone before birth and that can't be changed. I have no problems with women, they just don't attract me in the least.
2006-08-09 06:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Drewe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's look at JUSTIN's answer up there.....
He became gay because he was teased in ELEMENTARY school.
Then it turned to lust with other children his age (about 13).
Then shortly afterward he was gay (at about 15).
Then he gave his heart to Jesus and turned straight (at about age 16).
By age 16, he seems to have gone through SO much of life.
LOL.
If you write that in your paper, you're sure to get an "F".
2006-08-09 14:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women weren't able to cut it. 8-| It's not a choice. It's based upon emotions beyond words. If you're not gay you probably wouldn't understand. Sad, but unless you're Kinsey I don't think it'll be too great a paper...
2006-08-09 05:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by laydlo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋