Many times I can see that the decisions I make concerning my kids are something that he does not understand and it seems to be eating at him. Even though he's kind to me, He wants to discuss things with me and I'm willing to do that, but because of his strict upbringing, I'm afraid that he will never be able to not give his opinions about this. He thinks I give in too much and not say "no" enough. He is probably right but if I choose to do this sometimes, that he shouldn't be as concerned as he is. I know he loves me and just wants me to have it as easy as I can.It still makes me always have to be concerned about his thoughts on all this. Although sometimes he doesn't say anything, I know what he is thinking and it hurts me. Somehow, it makes me feel like I'm not doing a good enough job as a mother . I think I do fine and he has never told me that I'm not, but he has a hard time hiding it. I don't want him to try to influence me when it comes to me and the kids and I've told him .
2007-09-01
00:31:07
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