Singles & Dating - 26 November 2006

I got stood up Thanksgiving evening...I was supposed to get a swedish massage at my home from someone who i considered a friend. But he said he fell asleep at like 6 in the evening and when he called me the next day at 5 p.m. he said he was just getting up! He's vegetarian so I know he wasn't tired from eating damn turkey! So when he called me the next day to tell me this absurd story, he wanted to come over that night to do my massage. But I felt really awkward & rejected so I lied & told him I had plans for the evening & couldn't but that I would call him later. Should I just be honest & tell him I don't feel comfortable around him anymore? I feel like if i try to hang out with him again he'll stand me up again.

2006-11-26 06:19:35 · 7 answers · asked by JANE D 1

...some boy squeezed my butt yesterday. i know who he is, but i pretended not to see/notice/find him. what should i do to him for revenge? he's done it to other girls but none have stood up to him. some tried to talk to him and make it stop but that didn't work!!!!!

2006-11-26 06:19:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello! We are a newly engaged couple. This is our first new year's together. I want it to be special. We both agreed to spend it together alone. My fiance doesn't want us to go to some club or ball. He says it's not our style and we won't be happy there. Do you have any ideas for me, please? We have a money gift that we can spend, so money shouldn't be a problem. Also, we don't live together and he lives in another town. He will come all the way to spend new year's eve and may be two days with me. Thank you!

2006-11-26 06:19:04 · 3 answers · asked by Princess of Egypt 5

im in love with this girl in my class
she likes jokin wiv me n i like it to
but thts all im there for
im not there for talking only laughin
this makes me feel leftout
whenever i help her she hardly gives a thank you
she sometimes jus gives me dirtylook
whenever she goes on holiday she will hug everyone except me
i will get a handshake
there was one incident which made me really angry
i was chttin 2 her on MSN then i added one of her close m8s to the conversation
she said to her while i was there that she needed to tell her m8 someting in another conversation. she easily could
have just told her
this made me feel so angry
did she say that on purpose in front of me?
ive tried 2 have a break from her but i always come back
should i stop being in contact with for her for good?
what would you do?

2006-11-26 06:19:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was walking by the girl i love ( i told her i love her )
and she was with her boyfriend
and she looked at me for a second, then she looks down / to the right (away)
we're good friends
we talk quite a bit online, but not as much in person..
why did she look away ?

2006-11-26 06:16:00 · 14 answers · asked by Nick723 3

i like this guy and i thought he liked me back and i was going to ask him out but then i found out he liked one of my best friends. she was going out with this guy but then they broke up and then this other guy i kinda like was gonna ask her out and my friend/crush was sad. i know he kinda likes me but i don't know if i should ask him out or move on. some days he's like i'm over katie(my friend) and some days he's like i love katie and i really don' t know what i should do. Just ask him out or move on?

2006-11-26 06:15:45 · 1 answers · asked by Cole 2

I am 21 and I've developed quite a crush on a 16 year old girl. I realize that doing anything about this crush is not exactly proper, because of the nature of our age difference.
Truth is though, she is just so adorable, I can't stop thinking about her, and I find myself flirting/wanting to flirt with her. Is this okay as long as I don't take it any further, or should I "cease and desist" in the interests of propriety?

2006-11-26 06:14:58 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-26 06:13:59 · 16 answers · asked by jovene_cunningham2000 2

i want a partner...but cant be bothered finding one...what to do????

2006-11-26 06:12:55 · 21 answers · asked by trixiecat 2

thanks for the answers...
Ok, she's 19 while i'm 27...
Do u guys think its a good match? As in age...

2006-11-26 06:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by Preston 1

i need to know from women, my ex girlfriend told me i was small after 3 yr relationship and it really hurt me. my other ex told me the same. and we were together 3 yrs also. and a girl i met 4 weeks ago said i was small. is this really small for women? im getting depressed cuz i feel it will prevent me from a healthy relationship. do women really like bigger?

2006-11-26 06:10:58 · 11 answers · asked by JAY P 1

I was having fun with his questions, why do they keep getting deleted??? I have seen allot worse things on here then that.... I don't really feel thats fair considering the fact that we all ask sexual questions on here... why do his keep getting deleted...

2006-11-26 06:10:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i,m a texas rancher, i hve been working in ranches most of my life, i have had a few gals here and there but nothing permanent mostly cowgals.but now i m reaching 40 years and i seriously need to get away form the cows,bulls and horses and settle down. i do have several bad habits that hve stuck to me from ranching for so long, like chewing tobbaco, not wearing underpants under my jeans,eating baked beans and farting, etc. so have i left it to late to find a specialy lady in my life or will i never change my habits and remain dateless for the rest of my life? pls someone give me some encourageing adivice.

2006-11-26 06:10:37 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok theres guy at school who is really sweet and always flirts with me, he has told me hat he likes me... but he has a gf...how can i win him over?

2006-11-26 06:09:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a 61/2 year relationship. He lost his job 2 yrs ago, moved in with me 1yr ago. Only works PT & Freelance. Not looking for any other work outside his field. Bills are getting behind, I carry 95% of the load. I care for him but I have determined that I do not want to be his wife. His family is extremely dysfunctional and his options of where else to live are at "0". I'm tired, he seems content with his situation until I inquire. He whines excuses when I express how he needs a FT job. I know, having lost home & job (13yrs) taken away has to be very devastating, but how long can one "man" flop around in sorrow? I have truly been on his side for a long time but, I've reached a point of no more empathy. No, it isn't just a cash/bill issue. He reminds me of a teenager. Does nothing productive all day then right before I get home, half wash the dishes or start something else, as if he has been productive all day. Hygeine habits are bad too. Who would want sex with this stress

2006-11-26 06:07:44 · 10 answers · asked by BRENDA T 1

he broke up with me bc we did not see eachother all the time, but we still saw eachother often. i love him soo much and i dont know what to tell him to get him to just be patient, bc i have a alot of things going on right now, but i cant bear to be with out him. please send me your wards of advice.

2006-11-26 06:07:41 · 3 answers · asked by Chelsea 2

Blessings
By: Kenny P. aka- Cobra

You were born with a blessing.
And others see it in, you too.

Some are willing to die for it,
But it seems, it never bothers you.

Has your blessing put you above us?
Or yourself, who thinks you look the best.

Your blessings has opened doors for you,
While others, have to suffer like the rest.

It’s not your fault, you were blessed,
With the beauty, that others see.

It’s the way, that you conduct yourself,
That makes others glad, their blessed free.

But, there will come a day
When your blessings no longer work,

And you will see, what others truly thought of you,
When your blessings, made you act like a jerk.

So remember, there’s more to life than looks,
It’s what’s behind the looks which really make a friend.

So treat your friends with love and kindness.
And they will help you, to the very end.

2006-11-26 06:06:40 · 3 answers · asked by Cobra 5

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2006-11-26 06:06:32 · 9 answers · asked by cheezelord 2

ok theres this guy i really lik at my skool i think he liks me but im not sure and i really hav no clue how 2 let him no i lik him ive tried alot of stuff!! and i just need 2 find ways 2 get him 2 notice me can u tell me ways 2 get his attention!??

2006-11-26 06:05:34 · 10 answers · asked by vocalstar2b 2

I have loss of confidence at times (bad hair day, when at a dance club, when facing other men who also hit on my woman etc..) and notice that most women don't even approach me and stare at me with dislike during those times. On the other hand, when drunk, I am quite confident and even insult women a bit and they love it (I am not lying -- and I just insult them to get back at the times when they insult my being nice, but unconfident). Even guys who are murderers get women after coming out of jail because of confidence. In today's age where you can make money off the internet, is confidence really necessary? Why do women never go out with unconfident guys (there is such a guy in my office who is very good looking, but has zero confidence and zero girls)?

2006-11-26 06:04:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing a man for a year, mostly as friends within an extended group but it has become romantic and sexual for the past three months. When we first met we had a 'mildly' sexual relationship, without actually crossing any boundaries, then he told me he lived with a girlfriend so I backed off for nine months and we were simply friends, although there was always the underlying feeling that things were not resolved or over. For the past three months he has declared his intentions to sort out his life with his parner, financially, (and very generously to her benefit) as he feels this is only fair and right. The dilemma is that this will take him about three months as contracts have to be paid etc (boring but believe me totally genuine timescales). He has asked me to wait for him, told me he is in love with me and wants to be with me, however, for the past two weeks he has not contacted me Why the silence? Should I be worried has he changed his mind or should I leave it ?

2006-11-26 06:03:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in the same company with a gal. Let's just call her Preston. Whenever she's around me or when i see her in the company, i would have a sudden feelinf from my heart. Maybe i haven't been able to feel this for a long time so i think i'm in love... But anyone can confirm this before my next question?

2006-11-26 06:03:08 · 6 answers · asked by Preston 1

OK... THIS SUMMER I GOT TO KNOW THIS GUY NAMED DAVYE RIGHT AND THEN IN AUGUST I TOLD HIM THAT I LOVED HIM... HE SAID THAT HE HAS ALWAYS LOVED ME TOO SO WE WENT OUT... AFTER ONLY 4 DAYS HE SAID THAT WE NEEDED TO BREAK UP.. HE SAID IT WAS BECAUSE HE LIKED SOMEONE ELSE AND DIDNT WANT TO HURT ME BECAUSE HE CARED ABOUT ME TOO MUCH TO HURT ME LIKE THAT SO WE BROKE UP.. I LATER FOUND OUT THAT HE HAD A SECRET ALSO.. HE WAS BI.. SO YA THAT DOESNT BOTHER ME AT ALL THAT HE IS BI BUT HE TOLD ME WE WOULD GET BACK TOGETHER SOON.. NOW IT HAS BEEN 4 MONTHS AND HE HAS BEEN ACTING LIKE HE LIKES ME.. LIKE WE ARE ALWAYS HOLDING HANDS AND WE ARE ALWAYS CUDDLING WHILE WATCHING A MOVIE OR HE IS ALWAYS HOLDING ME WHENI M COLD.. THAT KIND OF STUFF... BUT THEN ALL OF THE SUDDEN ONE NIGHT HE SENT ME A MESSAGE SAYING HE DOESNT LOVE ME ANYMORE.. YET HE STILL ACTS THE SAME TOWARDS ME... WE STILL DO ALL THAT STUFF.. IF HE DOESNT LOVE ME ANYMORE THEN Y DOES HE STILL ACT LIKE THAT? WHAT DO U THINK ? Y IS HE LIKE THAT?

2006-11-26 06:02:36 · 8 answers · asked by ~Pinky_Winky_10~ 2

i ran into this guy about 9 months ago and we hit it off,i was stil bitter about catching my ex cheating(they r mutual freinds)he listend and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was such a gentlman.things were awkward the next morning when he left,a mutual friend told me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who still wants me back)i saw this guy 2 months after and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there and upset that we liked eachother.i sent him a text a coupe weeks after that night and he never replied.i saw him at a party 6 months later and he was with another girl(although they did not seem to be'together',he walked in,saw me and looked away-that hurt me.i will be seeing him this weekat a funeral,im still thinking about him from that night,i dontknow if ishould avoidhim andtry tomove onortalk to him,im not surewhat to say?

2006-11-26 06:02:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-26 06:02:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have an boy friend and i love him and he say he love me too but he takes advantage of it and use me. when ever he is around his friends he treats me like ****.but he behave different when we are alone. please i need help

2006-11-26 06:02:25 · 6 answers · asked by garcia b 1

Well, Ive been with my boyfriend for only two months, but since the day we became "official", we have basically been almost living together. This may seem weird, since we have a "long distance" relationship (2 hours driving), but we somehow find a way to spend almost every night either at my apartment or at his place. We've already met each others family and we are pretty much ALWAYS together. (i know this may seem a little crazy) I feel like us being so close kind of accelerates things and sometimes (a lot of times) there will be situations where I will want to tell him that i love him, but then I always think "no, it's too soon!" and i feel like im going to scare him off.

We have a really great relationship and I've been able to share things with him that I didnt feel comfortable talking to anyone about... Ive told him my deepest secrets and he accepted them and was willing to continue working things out and helping me.

Is it still too soon???

2006-11-26 05:59:37 · 10 answers · asked by jennytkd13 3

a girl liking a guy

2006-11-26 05:59:36 · 5 answers · asked by red4island 1