OK... THIS SUMMER I GOT TO KNOW THIS GUY NAMED DAVYE RIGHT AND THEN IN AUGUST I TOLD HIM THAT I LOVED HIM... HE SAID THAT HE HAS ALWAYS LOVED ME TOO SO WE WENT OUT... AFTER ONLY 4 DAYS HE SAID THAT WE NEEDED TO BREAK UP.. HE SAID IT WAS BECAUSE HE LIKED SOMEONE ELSE AND DIDNT WANT TO HURT ME BECAUSE HE CARED ABOUT ME TOO MUCH TO HURT ME LIKE THAT SO WE BROKE UP.. I LATER FOUND OUT THAT HE HAD A SECRET ALSO.. HE WAS BI.. SO YA THAT DOESNT BOTHER ME AT ALL THAT HE IS BI BUT HE TOLD ME WE WOULD GET BACK TOGETHER SOON.. NOW IT HAS BEEN 4 MONTHS AND HE HAS BEEN ACTING LIKE HE LIKES ME.. LIKE WE ARE ALWAYS HOLDING HANDS AND WE ARE ALWAYS CUDDLING WHILE WATCHING A MOVIE OR HE IS ALWAYS HOLDING ME WHENI M COLD.. THAT KIND OF STUFF... BUT THEN ALL OF THE SUDDEN ONE NIGHT HE SENT ME A MESSAGE SAYING HE DOESNT LOVE ME ANYMORE.. YET HE STILL ACTS THE SAME TOWARDS ME... WE STILL DO ALL THAT STUFF.. IF HE DOESNT LOVE ME ANYMORE THEN Y DOES HE STILL ACT LIKE THAT? WHAT DO U THINK ? Y IS HE LIKE THAT?
2006-11-26 06:02:36 · 8 answers · asked by ~Pinky_Winky_10~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a guy, and if he can get physical with you without a commitment, he will. Most guys don't need to love a girl or even like her to get physical. He is using you and you are letting him.
2006-11-26 06:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by Stormie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...so you're willing to put up with someone who not only cheat on you with other women, but men too? First of all, you can't be falling for his lies anyone honey....he broke up with you so he wouldn't hurt you...because he loved you TOO much? That's a line if I ever heard one. Throw his bi-sexual *** to the curb and find yourself some piece of mind for the Holidays. Learn to respect yourself before expecting someone else too. Be strong.
2006-11-26 14:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by Kimber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is in complete denial of his true feelings.It sounds to me that he is probably actually gay.He probably is scared however to admit this.All you can do is be his friend and worry about his feelings right now and set yours aside.I know that this seems hard but in the end it will payoff.
2006-11-26 14:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by porkchophaynes0206 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can still like you a lot even if he is not in love. may want to ask him if he is homo now instead of bi. might be part of it.
2006-11-26 14:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by polara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you loved the guy before you even dated him? it sounds like you both need to grow up a little and experience some of the real world.
2006-11-26 14:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl i would just stop talking to him
because he is messed up in the head
1st he says he loves u and then he doesn't then he does and then it he doesn't
u need to give him some time and let him let his feelins in check
i love u!!!
as a friend
BJ!
:)
2006-11-26 14:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that he likes you in his heart but maybe some of his friends think what you do is lame so maybe he said he didnt love you in front of his friends to impress them, he loves you behind it all but he cant show it............................maybe he is shy?
2006-11-26 14:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by crazy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is full of boloney and insecure and immature
2006-11-26 14:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋