I got stood up Thanksgiving evening...I was supposed to get a swedish massage at my home from someone who i considered a friend. But he said he fell asleep at like 6 in the evening and when he called me the next day at 5 p.m. he said he was just getting up! He's vegetarian so I know he wasn't tired from eating damn turkey! So when he called me the next day to tell me this absurd story, he wanted to come over that night to do my massage. But I felt really awkward & rejected so I lied & told him I had plans for the evening & couldn't but that I would call him later. Should I just be honest & tell him I don't feel comfortable around him anymore? I feel like if i try to hang out with him again he'll stand me up again.
2006-11-26 06:19:35 · 7 answers · asked by JANE D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes b honest
2006-11-26 06:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by 2Cute2bTrue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest with him. tell him everything. u know ,he might be saying the truth.i dont think he feels hurt in any way.if u dont tell him the truth u ll still be on the receiving side of the friendship ( i.e u get the emotional hazard of hurt and pain)
2006-11-26 06:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by talktome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your 1st mind; you shouldn't have to feel "awkward nor rejected." Something similar happened to me & although I forgave him; I told him I wanted to be with someone who is "true" to their word; I made him feel bad without cursing him out. Whenever something doesen't "feel" right, it usually isn't. Be true to yourself & honest with him; MOVE ON!! He's defininetly not a keeper...Tricks are for kids.
2006-11-26 06:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by motherkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes u and was scared to show up so he lied about it! just be honest with him! Thats the best thing u can do!
2006-11-26 06:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it was true he was tired and was going to make itup to you the following day dont feel uncomfortable around him. Just try and keep all arrangements casual
2006-11-26 06:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance.
You have nothing to lose.
2006-11-26 06:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY WOULD YOU EVEN BOTHER TALKING TO HIM ANYMORE ANYWAY?
HE HAS CONTROL ISSUES. HE WANTS YOU ON HIS TERMS. THIS IS ALL ABOUT HIM.
TAKE YOUR CONTROL BACK. FIND SOMEONE WHO IS READY TO BE A PARTNER.
RAISE YOUR STANDARDS IN MEN.
2006-11-26 06:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋