i ran into this guy about 9 months ago and we hit it off,i was stil bitter about catching my ex cheating(they r mutual freinds)he listend and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was such a gentlman.things were awkward the next morning when he left,a mutual friend told me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who still wants me back)i saw this guy 2 months after and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there and upset that we liked eachother.i sent him a text a coupe weeks after that night and he never replied.i saw him at a party 6 months later and he was with another girl(although they did not seem to be'together',he walked in,saw me and looked away-that hurt me.i will be seeing him this weekat a funeral,im still thinking about him from that night,i dontknow if ishould avoidhim andtry tomove onortalk to him,im not surewhat to say?
2006-11-26 06:02:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You waited far too long to reel him in. He has forgotten about you and you missed your chance that day he said you were killing him. He has moved on and so should you.
2006-11-26 06:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. The "incidents" you had with him happened over too long a period for anything to come of it. When you happen to have a good time with someone you need to pursue it then and there. When you let these things drag out for too long you lose all momentum and things become awkward like they are right now.
2006-11-26 06:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by jbortfeld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him, it'll work out a lot better than if you just avoid the topic. your ex can't get mad about it, he cheated on you, f*** him. if this guy is into you, he'll say something, if not, then at least you tried, shed some tears, and try to move on. luck to you though, it sounds like he's a halfway decent kid.
2006-11-26 06:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by The Frontrunner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel ask him why he keeps blowing you off dont try to move on without getting the answers that will let that happen and dont be scared because either things will work out n it will be okay and if it comes to the worst you should be able to move on
2006-11-26 06:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by game_freak4507 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on; it's never a good idea to date a friend of your ex.
2006-11-26 06:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and ask him. there's no point suffering alone and only thinking. and settle your account with yur ex for sure. Then you'll have less trouble.
2006-11-26 06:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by kobald 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋