Singles & Dating - 9 August 2006

First of all, I am a 24 year old attractive clean guy; in great shape (I body build almost every day). There is this 43 year old Asian woman at work that I am developing an ever growing crush on. It’s getting so bad I can’t even think about her without becoming really aroused. It all started when I caught her staring at me. At first I shrugged it off as nothing because she is married. I mentioned to a friend at work that I found her attractive. He informed me that he heard that she is getting/going through a divorce (She still wears her ring?!) Any way, it started with her and I accidentally running into each other from behind blind corners at work. Sharing smiles and laughing as we passed by. We started playing eye games in the lunch room. We always seem to sit away from each other with are different groups of friends, but we will position are selves to where we can see one another... and we will share intense gazes that last from 1-5 seconds.. Until one day she stopped, so I took that as a hint and decided it would be best to leave it alone. I came back to work today with full intention of avoiding the eye game. I look up and she is staring at me harder than ever, I find my heart racing and I am becoming aroused. I can’t help but return the lustful gaze. We share these glances back and forth when ever we have the chance and can handle how deeply intense they are.


When I am away from her, I find my self fantasizing about walking up to her; looking in her gorgeous dark mysterious eyes and kissing her soft proudly lips…breathing heavily as we taste each other deeply; wandering trembling hands exploring each others bodies. We continue, groping, kissing and licking with so much passion I get dizzy just thinking about it.

So, as I was leavening the parking lot of work today, are eyes were locked once again. So, I smiled and waved to her…she blinked three times fast, looked at the ground and ignored me??? I don’t understand, what was that all about. Is she being shy? Oh god, could I just have misinterpreted a staring problem…lol I hope I am not creeping her out. I don’t know what to do, I am going to try and ignore these emotions and avoid eye contact again. We haven’t even really talked to each other. I don’t know how to approach, or if she even wants me to? Ahhhhh!!!! Most of all why am I so attracted to this much older woman?

2006-08-09 13:45:32 · 9 answers · asked by MatureAsianFetish 1

Ok! In the past I've dated guys who always made the first move when it came to anything sexual. My current boyfriend said he wont make the first move. I don't know if it's becasue he's shy or becasue he's a virgian. If it's because he's a virgian he has made it clear that he's ready to "lose" it. What do I do?

2006-08-09 13:44:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does any one no what love means cause i dont no what it means ? plz help `

2006-08-09 13:43:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

His B-Day is in a week but im not to surewhat to give him? Help me out here...........?

2006-08-09 13:42:48 · 17 answers · asked by babe37 1

I have a boyfriend i like(not sure about love) but he is going to fast for me. hes really serious about it and i'm to scared to tell him how i feel cause i really don't wanna hurt his feelings. Any advice?

2006-08-09 13:42:14 · 6 answers · asked by boyhunter21 1

2006-08-09 13:42:07 · 26 answers · asked by THE 2

Talk to me people. IM me if you love Allen Iverson and the Detroit Pistons!

2006-08-09 13:42:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Talk to him, give him signals, stare at him, etc.?

2006-08-09 13:41:49 · 9 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4

2006-08-09 13:41:09 · 6 answers · asked by Antman Almighty 2

and whats the big deal about big booties and ****

2006-08-09 13:38:41 · 14 answers · asked by brownskindime 1

I am pretty good friends with this guy. I met him two years ago when we worked at a haunted house together. But I didn't like him then. Now I am starting to think that I am in love with him(now don't say that I am not or I am too young because I know how I feel and you don't). But the truth is I am so afraid of being hurt that I can't tell him, even though I am pretty sure he likes me too. But he is either just as nervous or he doesn't know I like him. But I really think he does, both of his siblings know and all my friends know so their is a very good chance. Anyway, I really need some advise on how I could tell him. I used to be able to talk to him so easily but I just can't now. Please help me.

2006-08-09 13:37:32 · 14 answers · asked by malohalo_89 2

2006-08-09 13:36:01 · 28 answers · asked by Maverick 1

im 13 and ive never had a bf or any thing i hate it ... (im in 8th grade) and like every 1 is going out with some 1 or some 1 is always likeing soem 1 but ive never had a bf or i dont think or believe that any 1 has every liked me i feel so....sad?!?

2006-08-09 13:35:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year and we have been talking about perposal but nothing ever happens.

2006-08-09 13:32:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 13:31:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 13:31:02 · 49 answers · asked by chantelle s 1

ok, my friend was saying that the only reason black guys go 4 white chicks in long term relationships is cuz they are easier to control. cuz black/latino gurls are harder to control. and asian chicks are harder to control than white gurls but easier than black/lation gurls?is all this true or not?

is it true that white chicks are the easiest to control?

SUMMARY- do black guys think it's easier to contrl a white chick, a black chick, a asian chick, or a latino chick? which one do black guys think is easiest to control??

2006-08-09 13:30:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

they call you very late like a month or a couple of weeks later? is it because they dont want us to know that they are sluts or hoes?

2006-08-09 13:30:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i only want to cut an inch or so off of it...and he's in the army so he's at his base...should i just do it cuz he won't know its gone?

2006-08-09 13:30:03 · 66 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5

i get turn on when i see football in my bf like's it. but i also get turn on when i see him frighting. that's reaaaaaalhot to me in it's hard not to be. but i'm alway's turn on when i see a guy that playing football or basketball is this a bad thing because my bf play's both. do you think i might wear him out because he's all ways play football,baskestball, scoccer! do you think this is a bad thing because i don't when to lose him because of my problem but i can't help it even if i try it get woerse'er ever time i do it. please help me? i don't when to lose him!!!

2006-08-09 13:29:59 · 13 answers · asked by sheena w 2

Is there really someone out there for everyone?

2006-08-09 13:28:37 · 9 answers · asked by thinkGREEN 3

I have encountered MANY racist americans. I watch them in the news and in real life. I know not all americans are racists. In fact, I have many friends that are american and they themselves tell me how much they dislike america for how some of their people are representing americans in all.
Tell me, would the average american take a job in a construction site with pay of $5.00 an hour working 15 hours a day? No right? Who keeps america standing? We do! Why is america so hated by more than half of the world? Because america is concidered racist, selfish, and lazy. I've met so many people that have suffered so much just to get some papers that say they are allowed here. If you go to Mexico most people there will welcome anyone, no matter where you're from, with a warm smile and welcome. While we come here and are treated like criminals and trash. Immigrants deserve more. We're not from another planet and are not a different species.The world is loosing it's cultural rishness to america

2006-08-09 13:28:01 · 49 answers · asked by Athena 4

2006-08-09 13:25:52 · 16 answers · asked by jack b 1

2006-08-09 13:25:02 · 20 answers · asked by LoLa 3

WHAT DO YALL LOOK FOR IN A MAN
no bad stuff plz

2006-08-09 13:24:29 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

or if a pretty girl gets an ugly man and they are sooooo sweet but then after a while they act like a jerk i mean why is that???

2006-08-09 13:24:17 · 25 answers · asked by my_precious_wyatt 2

yeah, i dont like it.

2006-08-09 13:23:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok im planning 4 a big kiss and i need tips like ,makin your breath smell fresher, lips more juicier and wet, not too wet not too dry

2006-08-09 13:23:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 13:22:34 · 13 answers · asked by Baby Gurl 2

How can i impress a guy?

2006-08-09 13:21:37 · 5 answers · asked by Angel H 1