Singles & Dating - 3 August 2006

If any of you have read any of my ques. You guys would know that I am going through a rough break up with my ex of 5 yrs. I love this guy deeply but our relationship is beyond repair. We really love each other but we have caused each other so much pain. Till this day we are still attracted to each other and love each other but we can not stand being in a stable relationship with each other anymore. So now we tend to just have these fantasitc sex episodes. In the action we tend to reveal out true feelings. And well just want to know what you guys think. Is it sick or therapeutic?
Consider this we dated for over 5 yrs had great sex always but now we sorta can not stand each other but we love each other.

2006-08-03 16:19:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can someone explain this to me?
Met a friend of a girl i work with for a second time. We kind of flirted with one another and she kind of asked me out and gave me her screenname. Why not her number, I dunno. She started to flirt with me some more then I noticed that her friend, the girl I work with (who has a bf she cares very much about and sometimes makes little smartass comments to me, at my expense) was glancing over and getting really pissy if I was doing something minor wrong, like almost throwing a hissy fit. So anyway, the girl I was talking to, which was all smiles to me most of the time asked if I could meet her the next week--I told her I was going to this huge concert, her eyes rose and when I told her I could probably get her a ticket she told me she wanted to go with me and we hugged good night. But she still didn't give me her number and well.....the email didn't work that she gave me. It was written ******. Why would someone go through ALL that trouble to set me up? Was it a set up or misunderstanding

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8 minutes ago
One last thing....I called her friend, the girl I work with and asked for it and she in turn asked her for my email addy so she could shoot it over to me, but when I gave it to her she kept messing it up. In my head I didn't get why she was acting like it was so hard. Then she asked for my number so she can call me back with it. I seen her once in person since and she'll look at me with no expression from a distance. I even went out with a coworker there last year once and she, with that girl right there, told me I should meet her mom. What the ****?

2006-08-03 16:17:30 · 2 answers · asked by axelf57 1

2006-08-03 16:17:04 · 11 answers · asked by Speaker4theDead 2

And possibly some Shemales too???

2006-08-03 16:15:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is my situation, I'm short 5'5", 21 so pretty much done growing too. Atleast once everyday someone will be kind enough to remind me that I'm short. Example today I was talking to some co-workers and one told me of a girl that would like me but was probably to tall for me. Then another female employee added everyone is too tall for me. My only reply was I'm starting to think so. I've talk with people before and they always tell me that there are plenty of short girls out there, which I know but it seems that they like the bigger guys themselves. I'm not bad looking but instances like the one I stated above crush my self confidence. Which in return makes me shy because I hear it so much that I believe that my height is the only thing that people notice about me. Now goes beyond the whole guy-girl relationship but to all of my human interactions to almost I feel inferior. I guess what I'm asking of you is any advice, or if you have been through similiar how you coped with it

2006-08-03 16:15:48 · 12 answers · asked by Phoenix 2

well he look at me every time I went to the libarry. mostly everybody like him in my dancing class. When I said hi to him when his friend is there he acts like he didn't no me, but when I said hi to him at a club he said hi back and ask me to dance.

2006-08-03 16:14:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

how would you treat him in the morning? After seeing him dig her back .

2006-08-03 16:14:44 · 22 answers · asked by Mimi 3

Shaved completely, trimmed, or natural "down there"?

2006-08-03 16:14:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-03 16:13:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 17 and im still a virgin im proud of it but why is it looked on as a bad thing by guys and some people think you are goody two shoes and that your afraid to do anything if your a virgin which is not always the case Why do guys think this way about virgins?

2006-08-03 16:10:26 · 28 answers · asked by amber 2

I've been told I have high standards for dateing a guy. I really dont think their all that high but cant find the right guy. Do I need to lower my standards? Is it impossible to find a guy with these qualties...

Honesy, trust worthy, smart, not immature but knows when its cool to be stupid and have fun, not cocky, sweet, responsible, stable, and sensitive.

I'd think thats basically the foundation for the 'perfect guy' but am I wrong?

2006-08-03 16:09:41 · 9 answers · asked by Monica S 1

My sister has one and this knowledge creeps me out. She must be a skank. No -- I won't give you her #.

2006-08-03 16:09:31 · 5 answers · asked by graffeng 1

talked to a guy for 6 months on the phone and online we became really good friends...and then finally i got to meet him last sunday (dont worry i know his cousin and i was with friends in a public place) and now since he met me he quit calling and emailing me its been a week its like he fell of the face of the earth...what is going on b/c he told my one friend that he wanted to go out with me

2006-08-03 16:09:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there a thing called married look?

2006-08-03 16:08:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-03 16:07:55 · 22 answers · asked by ~*~Sweets~*~ 1

HELP

2006-08-03 16:07:02 · 18 answers · asked by Release Anwar Al-Awlaki NOW 1

that i can turn my guy on.
in public.
and private (espically)
hmmm

2006-08-03 16:03:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, what does a guy look for in a girl? other then sex, i mean like what do they look for in their personalitys and beauty?

2006-08-03 16:02:59 · 19 answers · asked by Hannah 1

2006-08-03 16:02:04 · 37 answers · asked by Krissy G 1

The problem? This suitable match for me has just started working at the same place I do! Is it a mistake to date a co-worker? Okay, let's say that its not a mistake for a moment. I've been out of the dating world for over a year now, and I don't remember how to socialize with potential mates? I know you'll probably say 'just be yourself', well duh! But how do I take him out of the work environment to a social environment? And what type of environment would be suitable for getting to know him better? Eek, help!

2006-08-03 16:00:57 · 16 answers · asked by yayachicky 2

Such as:
1. different religion
2. different region (such as you live in a different planet)
3. different living style (eg: you are a bookworm and she is partygal)
4. huge age difference....eg: you are 20 and he is 40
etc

2006-08-03 16:00:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-03 16:00:02 · 22 answers · asked by princess 1

how come all of my ex told me i promised them about something....but i cant recall any of those words?

2006-08-03 15:59:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-03 15:59:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my friend jose are so close. we went to the movies the other day and he totally made a move on me. we ended up holding hands and all that. i had a crush on him forever so i was very happy. he decided to ignore my calls for about a week and now that we have talked he refuses to talk about what happened. i don't want to loose the friendship but i want to know what happened between us and what it meant for him. i feel used somehow. am i wrtong for feeling this way. i want advice from everyone. especially guys. i want to know what a guy is thinking in the situation. please!

2006-08-03 15:58:08 · 14 answers · asked by vicky 2

hug guys or any thing like that i always give a had shake so how do i know when the the right moment or know when a guy does not ming a hug

2006-08-03 15:56:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-03 15:56:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

is this true

2006-08-03 15:56:04 · 6 answers · asked by deejay.thompson 2

It`s seems that occasionally out of the many mini crushes I develop, one seems to stand out. I can hardly stop thinking anout the guy in question. I want to find out as much as possible about the guy and I start practically stalking him! I don`t want that to happen. It seems like I become totally OBSESSED even though I don`t intend on it. I put him up on this pedestal thinking he`s the perfect guy (When I`ve said maybe fifty words to him!) Then I start looking for flaws and The crush eventually goes away. What the hell is wrong with me??

2006-08-03 15:55:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Serious answers please.I got a text from his phone stating that I must not text him again,but from the way it was written I kinda knew it wasn't him.I texted back and asked him who was he?and that he was not supposed to called me for any advice relating to him and his big pussy gal.(He called me sunday for advice we are still friends)Then the girl text me back stating that its too dirty to write, but I did start it with a lot of curse words, she even said that I must leave people things alone.People I am in a stable relationship and I am happy with it but I am so pissed at this *****.They are living in another country by the way.I sent her a message asking her why her man still correspond with me?and that when a man had a good girl he will still love her and be friends with her.My ex and I parted because of our location and I know he still loves me he told me that.Do u think I should call his num and find out what she is doing with his phone?Just tell me what to do please

2006-08-03 15:54:20 · 10 answers · asked by Jachica 3