I've been told I have high standards for dateing a guy. I really dont think their all that high but cant find the right guy. Do I need to lower my standards? Is it impossible to find a guy with these qualties...
Honesy, trust worthy, smart, not immature but knows when its cool to be stupid and have fun, not cocky, sweet, responsible, stable, and sensitive.
I'd think thats basically the foundation for the 'perfect guy' but am I wrong?
2006-08-03 16:09:41 · 9 answers · asked by Monica S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I notice your standards only list the personality of the guy, no physical stuff. So you might have the problem with the guys physical qualities. Most women say they want most of what you listed....then hop on the back of the bike of the first bad boy that comes along, even if he does not have one of those listed qualities.
Most women somehow think that if the guy looks good, he must be all the things on your list too. And most women would not even consider a slightly less attractive guy or overweight one. I'd bet you are much the same. Even if you met the guy who had all those qualities, but had a big nose and a belly...you'd say 'no way'.
2006-08-03 16:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl do not compromise yourself, if that's what you want you'll get what you settle for. There is a site that has guys like you are looking for www.greatboyfriends.com The guys are posted up there by his friends, family members and even his ex's. Good luck and be patient.
2006-08-03 23:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Understood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why lower your standards?
Can any good come out of dating a guy you don't respect?
There is nothing on your list inappropriate, and you certainly deserve nothing less.
2006-08-03 23:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why change your standards, there are guys out there with those qualities, you just have to be open hearted and when the time is right you will run into him.
2006-08-03 23:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and never settle. I kissed alot of "frog" before I found the one. He is all those things and more. When you meet him it will feel like you are home.
2006-08-03 23:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your standards are fine and some girls add height and income.
2006-08-03 23:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Describes me to a T so you must be right.
2006-08-03 23:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. who dont want these kind of guys but.. human r nt perfect im afraid..
2006-08-03 23:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by chyi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope.. not at all. Never settle!
2006-08-03 23:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by lolitakali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋