im 17 and im still a virgin im proud of it but why is it looked on as a bad thing by guys and some people think you are goody two shoes and that your afraid to do anything if your a virgin which is not always the case Why do guys think this way about virgins?
2006-08-03 16:10:26 · 28 answers · asked by amber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guys that matter don't think this way. Be proud of your decision and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. When you find that special guy, you'll be glad you waited and so will he.
2006-08-03 16:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, its great to be a virgin. Some people envy you that is why they think you are a goody two shoes. Most women regret losing their virginity to soon and often they do it for the wrong reason. As for guys it may be psychological to convince you to give it to them. Alot of men love to have the challenge of being a virgins first. You continue to be proud. Also be patient, being a virgin is something that you cannot get back
2006-08-11 22:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by msshalawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen don't let anyone tell you that been a virgin is a bad thing and for the guys that are telling you that it's only because they are trying to break you and talk you into having sex because they want it for you and once you give it to them then they don't want you anymore and if they start telling you that they care for you don't fall for it and just say that if you love me then you will wait until your ready because i was 16 when i lost mines because people made me feel like it was a bad thing to and i got pregnant the first time i had sex and again and now I'm a single mother raising two kids by myself all because i fell for them lies that he was kicking me so be proud that you are still a virgin and don't let no one take that a way from you and you will be glad you did when you find that right one and get married OK
2006-08-11 16:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin is not a bad thing. What the problems is that so many people give it up to easily that they hate on anyone that is smart enough to keep it. So keep it as long as you can. As much fun as the movie 40 year virgin is it is true. You should wait for the right person and do everything that you want to do in the world. Once you start having sex it puts your life on a different plan.
2006-08-11 19:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by lonelyforever 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I asked this exact seem question when I was probably your age, title "Why is Innocence Out of Style?" I didn't lose mine until I was 20, I didn't ever tell anyone all awhile that I was a virgin but it honestly felt good to just know myself that I was strong enough to control myself. I never found out why people look down on it but I found mostly the younger crowd does. Its kinda like why do people think its cool to smoke. Its honestly, I believe a thing of maturity and when you get older it is envied by others that you have that kind of control. My advice is just to wait till you are ready yourself because its your body to do what you want with. When the time is right you'll know and I'm happy to hear you are proud of it.
2006-08-03 23:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HEY, don't let anyone say that to you. Being a virgin is a good thing because I consider you high-class. So what if you're a virgin? I like virgins because they're not losers who want to have sex with many other guys. I'm not that type of guy who would think that way. :) It's good that you're proud of it. You're just increasing your percentage of having a high-class boyfriend other than the other losers who decrease their percentage of having a high-class boyfriend. Just preserve it for the right person... I'm turning 16 so yeah. Haha. I think it's good you preserve it.
I rest my case.
2006-08-03 23:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because most guys are immature horn dogs, that's why. They're trying to guilt you into spreading your legs so they can get alittle somethin' somethin'. :P
Everyone does not look down upon virginity. I'm 17 and also a virgin, and no one's knocked me about it. And guys have no business asking a girl about her sexual activity unless you're dating or something. A real man doesnt waltz up to a girl and ask her if she's a virgin. I'd give junior and the twins a good kick at the point. :P
Some people nowadays treat sex like a casual thing, but it's so much more than that. I'm saving myself for my husband, and my husband only. It's the most precious thing you can give to someone..and I want to tell the man I love that I saved myself just for him. ;D
2006-08-03 23:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mizzy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's your gear and it's there for you to use how want. Anyone that would tell you otherwise has no right to do so. The only time that being a virgin would be weird is when YOU get scared of engaging in sex when all the rest of the circumstances are right. All I'd say is don't waste it cause you only ever really have it once.
2006-08-03 23:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny Canuck 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin is the best thing in the world. As far as my friends go, most of us are either a) virgins (including myself at 27), b) have had children with people they now can't stand to be around, much less raise children with, c) have had abortions that keep them up at night with nightmares, or d) have had sex with people who now freely admit that they don't even care about them. Of the three, I would personally rather stay in the category I'm in, wouldn't you? God designed sex for marriage. Don't give something to someone you don't plan on sharing the rest of your life with. You will regret it later. I regret sharing secrets with ex-boyfriends. How much more would I regret sharnig my body with them?
2006-08-11 21:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by godnchicn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't worry about what these guys think. All they want is to get into you're panties. The reason guys look at it as a bad thing is because they feel like if no other guy as gotten into you're panties then it's going to be that much harder for them to do so. Keep it that way i mean you've waited this long why give it up now. Wait till marriage it's the best thing to do.
2006-08-03 23:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by Broken hearted in the bronx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Mass Media is telling you it is a bad thing. It's not. I was nineteen when I lost mine. If guys are weirded out by it then they might not be the ones you should take home to Mom. With all of the diseases, you are so much better off. Not only that but you can finish high school and college without worrying about if you get pregnant or sometime else. You are so much better for waiting.
2006-08-03 23:18:53 · answer #11 · answered by Beth F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋