2006-08-03 16:13:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think that you could be satisfied with just living together??
At least you can be thankful that you have a wonderful relationship (otherwise why would you want to be married) so what's the problem? Marriage is truly only a piece of paper...don't get me wrong, it's nice to be able to say that your married but I would think twice about nagging him if he's really a wonderful man.....guys like that don't come around too often...your a lucky girl! If marriage is a must...you need to sit him down and have a heart to heart...explain to him that it's important to you and if he doesn't start working towards this....then you will be forced to reconsider your relationship with him....BUT I would only do this is you feel STRONGLY about getting married....me on the other hand, would just be happy to have someone that was willing to stay faithful to me and that could be my best friend as well as lover....marriage is but a word and a piece of paper....in the end, it doesn't mean much...because people are going to do what they want anyway.
Good Luck to you....I hope you get what you need!!
2006-08-03 16:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 11⤊ 5⤋
Uh! If I were a betting man and if he hasn't popped the question after 7 1/2 years, there is an excellent chance he isn't going to. You need to start evaluating you life right now. Do you want to continue dating this guy or do you want to make it official? If you want him to marry you, you need to get with him and be up front with him. Ask him how he feels about you and tell him that you want to get married. If he doesn't or keep coming up with the same lame excuses, walk on him. Move on with your life. I know that this can be a very hard to do since you have been dating for the last 7 1/2 years, but you need to know now. Find someone else who wants to get married instead of being a date.
2006-08-03 23:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 1/2 years..... and still gives you excuses to marry. Are you sure he loves you? But, it might be a good thing that you are not married.... I know people have been in long relationships, then they end up marrying only to divorce after a short period of time.
What are his reasons for not marrying?
2006-08-03 23:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by fbc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer already but are afraid to face it. Shall I spell it for you? The guy does not want to marry you, simple as that.
Just accept it and move on. That means, keep dating him knowing that he seems to want a no-strings relationship or break up with him and find someone who'd want to consider marriage eventually.
You can't get --or make-- anyone marry/love/change for you. That's a reality check.
Good luck!
2006-08-03 23:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
71/2 years if is not married to you he will not be married to you move on
2006-08-03 23:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by ghostdog506 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't done it by now, why the hell would you want to marry him? You can't possibly be so unattractive that he's the only guy out there that would have you.
2006-08-03 23:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny Canuck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the ultimatum..marry me or i will find someone that will marry me.or you could tell him that you met someone that is very nice and has the same ideals as you.
2006-08-03 23:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him its time to sh%$ or get of the pot....better yet, you would be the *#it part of that analogy. tell him to make a choice, time to be a man and give you what you need.
2006-08-03 23:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry truthseeker but if he wanted to marry u he would've by now.
2006-08-03 23:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND ANOTHER
2006-08-03 23:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by russellmcmillen1947 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋