My b/f and i have been together for just over six months and we are deeply in love. the only problem is that he always has a negative attitude and i believe that the reason for this is a lack in self-confidence. he has explained to me several times that he was always told that he was never good enough for his parent's standards. this i think is partialy the reason that he has a lack in self-esteem. i am very much one w/ high self-confidence, i believe in myself; he does not believe in himself in the least bit. it can be frusterating and truly sad for me to listen to him say that he cannot do anything, and when i try to tell him and convince him that he can, but he doesnt believe me. i am very much in love with him, but i really want his negative attitude to disappear and for his self-confidence to rise. does anyone have any suggestions on how to do this?
2006-06-29
09:32:25
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preppycutiepie
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