Deleted Answer: Evalutation of others becomes nearly inherent as we grow from infancy through adulthood....it is based upon myriad things. Body language, timing, sound, vocalizations.....how much so called 'psychic' space that we are allowed.....these are all factors (and more) that ascertain how safe we are or loved or whether or not we are even 'mentined' in any of certain situations......it is he people around us whom we look at through sets of feelings......in childhood, more of our abilities become honed and we make our choices. The after the better.....we become able and more able to now make clear what is 'good' for us, or pleasurable......Yes, we evaluate "everything' as time ensues and ultimately there is or a re medians drawn that we find as filters for this. Ultimately here we have our own aliances whther family or friends who influence our own ablilities to see what is wht, who does what and now the judging of our immdediate surroundings allows to peceive that there are cadres of people whom in no delicate sense ....but evenly seem to find thier own amongst many. Whether or not we agree with them, the lines are drawn...most often correct.....to remain safe....which is paramount. Hopefully, in remaining 'safe'; and with proper guidance(s) we become able to define what WE need. In the final analysis YES it will appear to be that like attracts like.....and with more given time, we can also see through this as a non-ending process....that growth is not just eventual....but ongoing. Sometimes we are proven wrong...but it is human nature to stay within a safe distance and judge others according to what we have learned. *I say yes this is true. if proven right, it strenthgens our own bonds with our own....and if one should leave their group we will too notice that. my answer stands.We teach others how to treat us. Thanks Lioncourt
2007-04-22
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