Singles & Dating - 7 February 2007

I liked this guy, but he was my *secret guy*. I didn't tell my best of friends, but I told them all my other crushes. I talked to him for 3 months DAILY for like, 3 hours, but last month, I wrote I miss you in a text because I hadn't seen him for a week, and he didn't text me back. I texted him a lot more, but he never texted me back. He never brought it up at school, and he stopped talking to me a lot of the time, where before, he was annoyingly close. He would always try to get my attention, and he even like, hugged me a few times. 2 days ago, I told my new best friend, which is one of his friends, that i liked him, but she didn't tell him.
Yesterday, we were talking about *the guy I liked* in class next to him, not naming any names, but still talking about him. AFter school, he walked up to her and said he knows I like him, and he's known for a long time. Kind of freaked me out when she told me. She denied it to him, but I think it was when I said I missed him.
What do you guys.

2007-02-07 09:54:02 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2

alrite...there is this one guy i like at skool...and we have sadie hawkans dance next wed. and yeh of course i want to ask himm..but like i get really nervous around him and i hate that so i dont talk to him a lot ....and i dont have enough confidence to ask him....but i have seen him staring at me...and every time i walk past him ive seen in the corner of my eye that his head turns like as i walk...and this once after semi formal....he had his arm around me and my bff to "keep us warm" cause it was snowing...ive also seen his best friend stare at me for like 10 mins...wht does this mean...and how can i ask him if ive only talked to him like 6 or 7 times in my life???? ...no rude comments plz...

2007-02-07 09:53:59 · 1 answers · asked by Cutie101 3

2007-02-07 09:53:36 · 2 answers · asked by Gothic Me 1

I have been friends with this (really hot) gay guy for the past year, but lately I am starting to think he may not be gay, because, although he says he is only attracted to guys, he has been acting funny around me lately. For example, me and him were sitting on the couch together watching a movie in his apartment when he just starting kissing me all of the sudden, and I was like "what are you doing !!!" and he just said oh I'm sorry, I didn't mean to ?! He also keeps making weird comments to me, like "if I weren't gay, I would do you in a minute" ?! He is a really sweet guy but, he is starting to really freak me out.


Questions:
1. Is he really gay ?
2. Are gay guys attracted to women ?
3. Why is he being weird ?


Other Details:
-I am 21(he is 22)
-We both go to college together
-I asked him if he was really gay and he said he is...so I am confused
-I am straight and he is gay

2007-02-07 09:53:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy and i have seen eachother around the halls and when i saw that he had a myspace i got rly excited and added him! we got talking and ended up excahnging addys and we talked on msn a lot and we flirted like crazy!! it was all going so well till he said he wasnt lookin for a relationship i though what ever we can just be friends for now. so we kept flirting and then all of a sudden the flirting stopped and then the talking stopped. now he completely ignores me. On msn when i say hi he says nothing back. what happened? i dont understand, please help

2007-02-07 09:52:56 · 5 answers · asked by Jade G 1

I don't really know this lady at work, pretty much said hi in passing, and I don't think she even knows my name. Anyway, I was thinking about sending her some flowers, what do you think? Plus, do you think I should write a message in there, something creative. I guarantee she wouldn't guess it was me, I don't know, what do you all think?

2007-02-07 09:52:52 · 4 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3

2007-02-07 09:51:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

K well what do you like in a girls personality? I'm not trying to change the way I am but I want to know what personality traits are more appealing to guys.

2007-02-07 09:51:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out my friend just lost her viriginity like 1 hr ago!! Why do ppl say they r gonna wait until marriage then not? Plz help me understand this!

2007-02-07 09:51:20 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy who really likes me came up to me today and told me how he was h*rny. Did part of it have to do with the fact that I am going to state championships for gymnastics and I was wearing my normal(somewhat tight) clothes??
What would drive a guy to do this??

2007-02-07 09:50:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

its like every time im around him i can barely talk kuz he kinda just makes me wanna hug him, and hes really sweet. like i tell him soooo much, and he always seems to make me feel better.its kinda hard to describe it. and like when we do talk i get goosebumbs and my head kinda goes on its own high. and when i walk into the hallway my eyes kinda automatically go straight to him, if hes there. and im really confused cause sometimes he acts like he might like me but then doesnt at all.
what do i do???
do i love him or no

2007-02-07 09:49:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-07 09:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by Sha Sho 1

or have you ever had a Prince that turned out to be a frog?

2007-02-07 09:49:04 · 41 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6

HELP!! this guy asked me to a dance and i really dont like him AT ALL!!!! He is also a bit of a dork!! Please help me let him down easy!! PLEASE!!!

2007-02-07 09:48:46 · 10 answers · asked by Liddy Bug 1

2007-02-07 09:48:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 9 months just broke up with me a week ago. It took him a few days to tell me why he did so. His reasons were that a lot of pet peeves that he had with me, he just couldn't tolerate them anymore/ He thinks I'm bad with with money, even though I'm the one who works, and thinks that I'll be like that if we married/ He thinks I'll cheat on him in college or while he's at boot camp/ He feels that he can't be intimate with me because I am not a virgin, but he isn't either/ He thinks that I am dominant.. He says that he thinks that this is the "right" thing to do. What hurts me the most is that this was very unexpected and he never once sat down to discuss these cracks in our relationship. I truly love him, and want to prove that I can change if he'd give me the chance. Lately, I've tried not to talk to him except saying hi, have been dressing nicer, and dyed my hair black (A color he wanted me to try). I work for his mom and we go to school together... I need to win my love!

2007-02-07 09:48:19 · 2 answers · asked by hrfolsom 1

I feel in love with this guy 2 years ago...hes in the navy and everything but things seem to be getting worse over the last year and a half...i dont know what to do to this.. i dont know if i should walk away or stay a just keep going on. One thing is that i broke a couple of promises to him and he always beats it into my head whenever were on the phone...and it sucks...i dont know if i should walk away from him or if i should stay? i also need help telling him i need to walk away...so any advice would be great!! thank you! leave comments on here or email me @ senatorbizzy2008@yahoo.com....thanxs!

2007-02-07 09:48:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a guy that I like but another girl at school likes him to. Her name is Melonie. I have been trying to get Kilmer to like me but she is always around him. I brought him a ''present'' to school today but I saw her flirting with him and kinnda freaked out. What do I do?

2007-02-07 09:47:17 · 12 answers · asked by TomBoy 360 1

okay, i had a dream about going to a salon and in the salon they sold stuff like a gas station would. And so this really hot guy named 'paul' asked me if i wanted him to cut my hair so i let him and we drank energy drinks and had a really good time while he cut my hair. then i came the next day to find 'paul' and ask him over or somthing and another guy named 'ben' came in and we both tryed to grab a drink at the same time and ended up bumping hands, and we started talking. We also had a good time. and then i went to my friends house and i told them about this dream, they said that i should go back and talk to them and then when i went back i saw ben and paul standing their waiting for me. and i woke up. IS THIS A SIGN? am i supposed to meet someone named ben or paul? is their anyone on there that has a name of ben or paul and is like 17-20? or is this just like a stupid dream?

2007-02-07 09:47:11 · 12 answers · asked by kapowww 1

just one more question......? How do you make yourself stop this and get up those stairs?

2007-02-07 09:47:01 · 16 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6

I met a girl online a year ago and we were talking but then we stopped. I live in GA and she lives in VT. The other day I decided to IM her and see how she was doing and we immediatly couldn't stand to not talk to each other for ten mins we were calling and texting and IMing each other every minuite. Two days later she won't pick up my calls or and she immediatly puts on an away message on AIM whenever I ask her if I can call her. I painted her a beautiful painting for her birthday that I was going to send to her. Yesterday she told me that I couldn't text her anymore because she went over and now shes telling me that she dropped her phone in the toilet and it's not working even though her away message was telling some of her friends to call her. The other night she told me that she missed me after not talking to me for five mins. She always starts the AIM conversations. What's going on???

2007-02-07 09:46:12 · 5 answers · asked by Tad 2

whats if you already have a boy but u have fallen for 4 other guys! im boy lives in monatna my boy! im around one of the guys but the others live other places! so i really dont know what to do! please help? thanks

2007-02-07 09:44:17 · 13 answers · asked by basketbllgirl 1

how can you tell the difference ?
how willl she act towards you ? stuff like that

please and thanks

2007-02-07 09:44:09 · 4 answers · asked by Nick723 3

2007-02-07 09:43:47 · 14 answers · asked by speaks Truth 1

O.k. This boy says that he doesn't like me, but whenever he's around me, he hugs me and today he gave me a great big hug and then( I know this sounds bad, but we play like this sometimes) He bumps his knee on my butt! Not hard, but hard enough to make me jump and scream( not in pain, in "silliness"). I swear, He acts like he's flirting with me. I don't know what to do. Does he like me or not??? Thanks for the answers.

2007-02-07 09:43:10 · 13 answers · asked by Sha-Sha 3

My ex is posting mean things on his myspace page to hurt me. What should I do?

2007-02-07 09:42:55 · 8 answers · asked by amandamc32183 2

ok wel i gues i am flirting with this guy,his name is sam,so i always lik 2 talk 2 him in algerbra,so i always ask him stuff lik so have u ever counted all those freckles on ure face? and he'll giggle and laugh with me,but i really cant tell if he likes me? his friend and him whsiper and then they'll look at me,and sam will go bak 2 whispering while looking at me at the same time..so? idk does he like me,or not,i mean i kinda like him,but im not for shure,i SO do not wanna make the move 2 asking him out,so,he likes to ask me alot of stuff lik,wat r u doing this friday,but he asks tht cuz he kno's im doing stuff w/ friends? and then ill ask him,so wat do u guys think? does he like me?

2007-02-07 09:42:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres a girl i like and a dance on friday i wana ask her but som1 told me she wasnt going but i think she ite if som1 asks her shes always with her friends so its hard 2 get her alone exept at the end of the day im in middle school so i need some lines or tips or something plz help i really like her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-07 09:41:49 · 11 answers · asked by ... 2

yeah that totally explainss itself.. i mean i am not just going to have a boyfriend like for a week. and i dont want long term. but i mean i am not just going to go out with someone i dont like.. you know what i am sayinnnnn.

2007-02-07 09:41:12 · 10 answers · asked by Yasmeen. 1

My gf has met my daughters' 18 and 15. My oldest thinks she is a great person, nice character, my 15 yr old doesn't have much to say. Do you think my gf is somehow insecure about invading thier space? Should I worry about this, do not get me wrong, my girls come first. Would children be a factor for some women?

2007-02-07 09:41:05 · 17 answers · asked by Phillip M 1