My bf and i met online april 2005, we fell totally in love, he lived an hour away, but moved in with me in oct. Everything was great but we didnt spend much time 2gether, he has 2 jobs and lots of friends and interests. We went away 2gether overnite once. He was always very busy and we didnt do much fun stuff. I complained. Not soon after (in May)he decided he wasnt ready to live 2gether too much like marriage and he wasnt ready 4 that. I was devastated. We still love each other, but he said he likes being alone as much as being with me and that scares him and he doesn't want to b married and 2 yrs down the road wish he would have spend time alone, he said he just needs to get this out of his system. Ok in the meantime we hardly ever see each other, he is very busy had a promotion at work and puts in more hours. This situation is totally driving me nuts, i want 2 b with him and i cant and i dont know how long ill have to wait 4 him. should i break up with him and not waste my life?
2006-08-05
07:02:57
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Sue M
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